Just a question

[Beachandsurf]

Ok, has been almost three months and he has not tried to contact me. I gave up three weeks ago myself. Just got tired of it. And accdepted the fact he just does not give a crap. It still hurts, but I have to say , things are more in perspective.

 

I was going over the past year's cell phone bills.

 

I had added a second phone to my line and paid 150.00 a month for the phones. I finally got rid of his in August. Seems as I started to smarten up he was getting more distant. Ahh so much sense this is all making now with a clearer head and less emotion. ;-)

 

My question is this though... he is almost 43. His Mom and stepdad live ten minutes away. His child hood friends live in Ohio. The cell phone records show he called and was called by his Mom and stepdad about eight to ten times a day. And he spoke to the guys in Ohio daily and nightly sometimes for and hour right after speaking to them a hour before! Running up the minutes.

It is spilt milk now yes. but I was amazed at how much time he spent each and every day talking to these people, but would always tell me he hated talking on the phone!!

There lies the ongoing bullcrap I had dealt with years back as well. He always put his buddies before us. And I was the one supporting us but apparently not enough in other areas.

Oh and did I mention the porn all night on the interent with the online poker ?? no huh? ;-):splat:

[jc123]

as long as the bills werent too expensive, you should continue nc.

[Beachandsurf]

as long as the bills weren't too expensive, you should continue nc.

 

the last bill was 374 lol but that included the disconnect fee.

 

it just seems weird that a guy his age would spend every single day talking to his Mom and his grade school chums, EVERYDAY!!

[jc123]

lol thats true. he does sound like he hasnt really grown up. he may still rely on his mum! thats quite an expensive bill. are you willing to pay for it or do you want him to foot the bill?

[Beachandsurf]

lol thats true. he does sound like he hasnt really grown up. he may still rely on his mum! thats quite an expensive bill. are you willing to pay for it or do you want him to foot the bill?

 

bill was paid long ago, i paid for all .. he does not work, mommy pays him to cut the lawn, and his buddy lets him stay just to have a drinking buddy and someone to play playstation with lol

 

oh well, just wondered if it was me, if I was missing something

 

and talking to his friends in Ohio?? lol every single day?? he still thinks he is 18 apparently