Not answering his phone

[rican4u2002]

I just called my fiancee a half ago, no answer, then I did it again just a few moments ago and again no answer. The first time I did leave a message, but this time I didn't. Now with my past, I almost automatically assume he's cheating cause he isn't answering his phone, however I'm trying to get away from that. But, when I did talk to him a few hours ago he said he was getting online in an hr, hr and half and that was back at 11pm EST and it's now 2am.

 

I'm getting worried, and a bit uneasy about him not answering. I know he has it charging, and went out to take care of things without his phone, but at the same time isn't it a bit strange? I'm not jumping to conclusions, but I want to know what you guys think

 

Edit: Also this is long distance. I'm in NY and he's in Australia

[waveseer]

I think many of us are far too attached to our phones.

[8amallday]

sounds like a classic case of falling asleep.

ive been there.

 

not to get too personal, but does he have a history of cheating?

[vmrhine18]

does he do this alot?

[rican4u2002]

@ waveseer: lol yeah I know I am XD, but this is a long distance relationship. (I'm in NY he's in Australia) so the phone is the only way we really talk

 

@8amallday: hm, not that I know of. He was usually the one always getting cheated on and he said if anything were to happen he would tell me. Well usually when his phone is charging he doesn't answer it, so I suppose it's that or he fell asleep lol, because he does do that... A LOT! Even when we're on the phone, he'll snore lol.

 

@vmr: No. Usually he'll send me a text saying he's taking a nap or he's charging his phone so he won't be on it. But because his phone is gay, we haven't been receiving each other's texts which is why I called.

 

I guess I'm just worried because he hasn't came online either, but he is getting over being sick too I suppose so he could have fallen asleep. Idk.

[Sn0man]

or he fell asleep lol, because he does do that... A LOT! Even when we're on the phone, he'll snore lol.

 

That says a lot, right there.

 

You spend way too much time on the phone.

[rican4u2002]

Well it's not like I can go see him since he lives in a different country snoman, so the phone is the only way we talk to each other. And given the big difference in time zones, we actually don't talk as much as you think.

[vmrhine18]

I say don't worry about it unless it becomes more frequent.

[rican4u2002]

Yeah, I'll just keep an eye on it in case it does, but your right

[8amallday]

it really does sound like he fell asleep.

its so easy to let our minds wander, especially as a way to protect ourselves from being wronged.

logically though, hes asleep. i would also guess hes asleep too.

i dont know your taste in men, but chances are, if this guy is your fiance, he must be pretty all right and trustworthy.

i would ask him what went on in the morning!

i hope you can rest easier now!

[rican4u2002]

Well he just sent me a text lol so I'm on the phone with him now. Worry is gone!!

[8amallday]

cool beans

[rican4u2002]

lol yep yep.

he did apologize for not coming online either, he got caught up in stupid youtube vids. >.>