waveseer Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 I am sure she will be getting her own cell phone plan soon and I may be the first guy she has talked to since she left him and he doesnt like it. The fact is she has been over him for awhile and I am sure it is tough to get away from him when there is a child involved and he doesnt agree with the breakup. I hope things work out the way you want them too. Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 I hope things work out the way you want them too. Well how should I respond to this? Normally I would run like hell but I really dig this girl. I guess I have never been in a situation dealing with a physco ex. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Normally I would run like hell ...QUOTE] You should mark these words. If you do keep pursuing her, you will regret that you didn't trust your gut. Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 Normally I would run like hell ...QUOTE] You should mark these words. If you do keep pursuing her, you will regret that you didn't trust your gut. Why just because of a crazy ex that she has absolutely no feelings for? Link to comment
Angelstar30 Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Because you don't know how crazy that ex may be. Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 I have a question for you. What would you do if you were still on your exes cell phone plan and you no longer wanted to be? Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 Well I am willing to risk it considering I really connected with her and the fact that he lives 40 minutes away... So how does one go about responding to this? Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Well I am willing to risk it considering I really connected with her and the fact that he lives 40 minutes away... So how does one go about responding to this? Buy her a pay as you go phone and load it up with some minutes. Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 I have a question for you. What would you do if you were still on your exes cell phone plan and you no longer wanted to be? I would be getting my own..which I am sure she is doing with all of this going on now...keep in mind I just met this girl... So again how should I respond? Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 I would be getting my own..which I am sure she is doing with all of this going on now...keep in mind I just met this girl... So again how should I respond? Tell her you understand her predicament and you'd like to take her out. Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 Buy her a pay as you go phone and load it up with some minutes. Whoah lets not go that far...I just met her... Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Whoah lets not go that far...I just met her... How else are you going to make plans with her? Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 How else are you going to make plans with her? Well I suppose by calling or texting...although my voicemails are not safe. Link to comment
waveseer Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Well I suppose by calling or texting...although my voicemails are not safe. Have you considered that her ex can see when you call or text when he checks the account even if you haven't left a voicemail? He isn't a reasonable person, do you know him? Do you know what he is capable of? If you like her I suggest not calling or texting that phone again, you will likely be making her life more difficult. Link to comment
Angelstar30 Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 I don't know. I wouldn't mess with somebody with a crazy ex. But that's just me. At least not until she got another phone. Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 Have you considered that her ex can see when you call or text when he checks the account even if you haven't left a voicemail? He isn't a reasonable person, do you know him? Do you know what he is capable of? If you like her I suggest not calling or texting that phone again, you will likely be making her life more difficult. True he probably could see that and I do not want to make her life more difficult...... this is really tricky. Link to comment
Angelstar30 Posted September 24, 2009 Share Posted September 24, 2009 Does she have email? Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 well we text messaged back and fourth today....I really like this girl...just sucks about her situation though. Link to comment
AlwayzRight Posted September 29, 2009 Author Share Posted September 29, 2009 I will never understand woman.....we texted back and fourth all day Friday which she initiated for the last two days and she ended it saying she hated texting and would give me a call sometime on the weekend..she never did... Saturday night I sent a text with something like "hey hot one, how goes it?" to see if she was out and about on the town, no reply and now today I sent a text this afternoon sayin "Hey purdy lady, hows your day goin?"...and no reply....... What the hell?......if I dont hear from her by Thursday, should I give her one last call? Link to comment
Angelstar30 Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 I will never understand woman.....we texted back and fourth all day Friday which she initiated for the last two days and she ended it saying she hated texting and would give me a call sometime on the weekend..she never did... Saturday night I sent a text with something like "hey hot one, how goes it?" to see if she was out and about on the town, no reply and now today I sent a text this afternoon sayin "Hey purdy lady, hows your day goin?"...and no reply....... What the hell?......if I dont hear from her by Thursday, should I give her one last call? It's tricky because she claims her ex deletes some of her texts, but I honestly think you should just leave her alone at this point. If she wants to, she can contact you. But I wouldn't initiate anything if I were you. Link to comment
kenneth1975 Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 If they constantly make excuses then it's probably best to move on. Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted September 29, 2009 Share Posted September 29, 2009 I will never understand woman.....we texted back and fourth all day Friday which she initiated for the last two days and she ended it saying she hated texting and would give me a call sometime on the weekend..she never did... Saturday night I sent a text with something like "hey hot one, how goes it?" to see if she was out and about on the town, no reply and now today I sent a text this afternoon sayin "Hey purdy lady, hows your day goin?"...and no reply....... What the hell?......if I dont hear from her by Thursday, should I give her one last call? If she hates texting, and her ex deletes them, why didn't you call her? Yes, I think you should call her. If she avoids you then, then I think it's best to move on. Link to comment
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