Speranza Posted September 20, 2009 Share Posted September 20, 2009 Are you a Catholic? Is there a local centre for women's health who you could go and talk to? If you do a test and you're pregnant, you're still going to have to talk to somebody about it. And if you're not, you STILL need to see a doctor. ANY change in your mestrual cycle needs to be flagged up (eg Someone needs to know about it so they can check you're okay). Are you a French or a Dutch speaker? I speak French if you want to PM me. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 20, 2009 Author Share Posted September 20, 2009 Are you a Catholic? Is there a local centre for women's health who you could go and talk to? If you do a test and you're pregnant, you're still going to have to talk to somebody about it. And if you're not, you STILL need to see a doctor. ANY change in your mestrual cycle needs to be flagged up (eg Someone needs to know about it so they can check you're okay). Are you a French or a Dutch speaker? I speak French if you want to PM me. Thanx a lot. You're right and smart you realised I'm from Belgium so would speak dutch and or french. Though I grew up in the Netherlands so that explains why dutch is my main language. Tnx I may P.M. you. Maybe just wait another week, then do a selftest and then after a short while my next period or implantation blood will probably take place.. I'm Catholic. Why (?) Link to comment
Speranza Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 Because your language is leaking loads of guilt around this. Who cares whether 'they' ask if you were good about using contracetion? (And Catholics often don't). What matters is your health, Sweetheart. If this bothered you enough to post here, why are you so worried about being checked out? Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 21, 2009 Author Share Posted September 21, 2009 well I must be careful with my money support too. Maybe they start thinking in a way like she takes too many risks, causes her healthsituation by her own 'mistake'/decisions so now we have an excuse to stop the money support. Link to comment
trezz Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 please go to the doctor. they are not there to judge anyone they are medically trained to deal with medical issues. believe me if they started gossiping and judging everyone no work would get done. my answer of implantation blood was only one of several answers yet you homed in on it...something in the back of your mind causing you to wonder? medical issues are best cleared up asap. catholics get pregnant outside of marriage too we are human. if gossip is worring you believe me, gossips lose interest quickly and move on to the next interest thats nothing to do with them. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 21, 2009 Author Share Posted September 21, 2009 tnx a lot. I will start with hurrying to buy a selftest. And one of my near family members is doctor too and I told all of this already. Link to comment
liquer Posted September 21, 2009 Share Posted September 21, 2009 tnx a lot. I will start with hurrying to buy a selftest. And one of my near family members is doctor too and I told all of this already. Perhaps a comb to? Hope it clears up. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 22, 2009 Author Share Posted September 22, 2009 comb ? what does it mean again ? Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 24, 2009 Author Share Posted September 24, 2009 I will let know what will happen within the next about twenty days. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 26, 2009 Author Share Posted September 26, 2009 So possibly about two weeks left. Link to comment
trezz Posted September 26, 2009 Share Posted September 26, 2009 meaning you didnt get a home test kit? oh well. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted September 27, 2009 Author Share Posted September 27, 2009 that;s true. running short in money and guess I will know by itself w/in 20 days or something. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 1, 2009 Author Share Posted October 1, 2009 If there's anybody who can tell me or even just guess about the following then let me know: Should I count starting dat previous period + a month/31 days OR the end date + about 21 days to have a more secure prediction when it would be the most normal case.. b/c period took 8 or 9 days I think. Link to comment
trezz Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 how about asking the friend who is a doctor bound to know more then the average person. i dont think i have anything new to add so wont be back. wishing you well and i would recommend if you are pregnant finding out quickly so that any medical matters can be addressed if pregnant or not, bye~wishing you well. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 2, 2009 Author Share Posted October 2, 2009 don't understand your reasoning;- Link to comment
dangletsbang Posted October 2, 2009 Share Posted October 2, 2009 Belg, NO ONE ON THIS WEBSITE CAN TELL YOU WHAT IS GOING ON WITH YOUR BODY. Buy a pregnancy test or go to the doctor, honey! Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 5, 2009 Author Share Posted October 5, 2009 Yeah but like I told that is what will happen w/in about a week especially if there's something remarkable again about upcoming days of the cycle. Just don't understand why somebody won't follow my thread just b/c I decide to wait till those next days. Link to comment
Speranza Posted October 5, 2009 Share Posted October 5, 2009 People probably are following your thread but there's not much point in them posting if every time you answer, "I will wait a few days." We all know that's what you're doing so we're waiting too! Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 Well,that person doesn't seem to have patience to wait. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 9, 2009 Author Share Posted October 9, 2009 I just lost some blood. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 10, 2009 Author Share Posted October 10, 2009 Don't know what to do or conclude in case I lose normal color blood but still not very much blood and eventually in case it's with an interruption again and/or more days than normal again. Then I should buy a test, I think. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 12, 2009 Author Share Posted October 12, 2009 Is there somebody who knows if it's possible to make an apointment with the doctor or gynaecologist to let them do a test instead of buying a selftest. In that case I can think of doing that immediately b/c I usually get things like that paid back. Don't have the money at the moment for a selftest. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 13, 2009 Author Share Posted October 13, 2009 Speranza, still hanging in ? Link to comment
SamiJayne Posted October 14, 2009 Share Posted October 14, 2009 Go to the doctor... It could be something serious... You could have a burst cyst... an eptopic pregnancy, implantation bleeding.. anything. If you can't afford to buy a pregnancy test.. or buy contraception... You should NOT be having sex. As you sure won't be able to pay for a baby. I really can't believe your 23.. and take so many risks with sex. You've posted several times before about possible pregnancies, how you love unprotected sex bleh bleh. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted October 17, 2009 Author Share Posted October 17, 2009 Tnx for your input. You're right. Link to comment
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