Rocker_Greg Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 okay so me and my GF were talking and she Doesn't want me to give her Oral. Which kinda sucks, lol. but anyways.. She said she's not comfortable with the idea of my head being down there and that the idea of it will take her some time to get used too. She was a virgin when we started dating, so she is rather new to everything. But is this normal? Ive never had this problem with anyone else before. So are any of you like this? have you been like this in the past maybe? Link to comment
PlumGT Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 It's normal if she is new at being in a sexual relationship. I remember when I was a virgin and my guy wanted me to touch it, I was super uncomfortable. After awhile, I found out that I love giving head and pleasuring him. Give her some time (but don't get mad at her if it turns out that she isn't too into oral sex). Link to comment
Rocker_Greg Posted June 13, 2009 Author Share Posted June 13, 2009 I'm not pressuring her. at least I don't think I am. Link to comment
Rocker_Greg Posted June 13, 2009 Author Share Posted June 13, 2009 It's normal if she is new at being in a sexual relationship. I remember when I was a virgin and my guy wanted me to touch it, I was super uncomfortable. After awhile, I found out that I love giving head and pleasuring him. Give her some time (but don't get mad at her if it turns out that she isn't too into oral sex). she has no problem with touching me. and she's not against giving me oral (although we havent). Just me giving it to her Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 I agree with Southern: It's totally normal, especially seeing as she's new to all of this sex stuff, lol. Give her time and don't pressure her. Enjoy whatever it is that you guys do so far. Baby steps. Easy does it. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 If she is anything like the previous partners I've had. To put it bluntly. . . She worries it may "smell" down there and you would lurch back in disgust, cough, gag or choke or something to that matter would blow her fear sky high. She has to be prepared for that mentally if your reaction is bad. So just wait till she's ready. Link to comment
faithful14 Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 its totally normal because it's not something she's used to. You worry about the guy not liking it, or it may smell, or many other things. Just take things slow and go at a pace where she is sexually comfortable. I used to be that way too when i first started. I always cringed when my boyfriend went down because i was so embarassed and worried of what he might think. It took some time but i got comfortable with the whole thing. Link to comment
Sylvanna Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 It took me ages to be confident with it, and even nowadays I doubt if I am, it seems all my bf loooove to do it the less I feel like having it. lol. Link to comment
Sylvanna Posted June 13, 2009 Share Posted June 13, 2009 If she is anything like the previous partners I've had. To put it bluntly. . . She worries it may "smell" down there and you would lurch back in disgust, cough, gag or choke or something to that matter would blow her fear sky high. She has to be prepared for that mentally if your reaction is bad. So just wait till she's ready. I also agree with this... we're mainly worried about that, and doubt sometimes why a man wants to go down there so much! specially if she's not shaved, another reason to fear you won't enjoy it, and that you do it because you feel is your duty to please her but you won't enjoy doing it. And also as it's been said by another girl, the only way that she may let you try down there more often is to say how beautiful she is, and how beautiful it is, and that you love it's smell and taste... but I doubt she'll believe you! Link to comment
keithlancaster Posted June 14, 2009 Share Posted June 14, 2009 So most people seem to be saying smell. So maybe try it right after she takes a shower/bath. Or maybe you could take one together Link to comment
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