roadtrippin66 Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 Theres this girl at school who started hanging around me lately in one of my classes. She waves at me frantically every time she sees me, and says hi to me. I really like her, but im shy and I'm not sure if she acts that way because she likes me too or not. I have no idea what to do...I'd really like to date her or something like that. Link to comment
dave..yep..dave Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 I know how you feel. Once a girl walked up to me and said hi and all i could manage to say was "guh." Try to relax and don't get twitchy (girls hate that) If she likes you you'll probaly get lucky and she will ask you out. then, all you have to do is say "ok when." it gets easier after that. Link to comment
roadtrippin66 Posted February 28, 2003 Author Share Posted February 28, 2003 yeah, I guess I should just go with the flow of things. Ive messed up a lot before and i wanna get it right this time you know? Link to comment
mermayd Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 hi there! I think that this girl is showing you that she is interested in you. Just try being as natural as you are around your friends when you are around her. remember, she is just as human as you are. Ask her how her weekend was next time you talk. Just be easy going and go with the flow as you said. Once you two get your conversations rolling things will be easier to escalate from there. Good luck! Link to comment
prelude93 Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 If it was me in your poistion, I would wait till she gives a bigger sign. Most of my friends, that are girls, act the same exact way as you described what she does and I know for a fact that they do not like me as more than a friend, one may but I'm not sure and I'm already working on another girl. For now I would just stay friends with her kinda smile and wave and say hi when you smile, and maybe do something with your friends and invite some of her friends and her, and kinda stick around her and just hang around here more, and see what happens. That is just my opinion and I'm not an expert at dating, but that is what I can tell you from my own personal expierence. The girl may just be looking for you to be a friend, and you can move in on her later, and ask her on a date with just you and her. Good Luck! Cya'll Later Link to comment
TearsofaDragon20 Posted February 28, 2003 Share Posted February 28, 2003 Being shy is natural feeling. everyone goes through that and still does now. it would be best to break that barrier. it will give you more confidence and let you be more open. let her know that you like her to get the ball rolling. you dont want to go and open up to her too much or tell her things that shouldnt be said quite yet. but make a move towards her to show you like her the same. message me back on what you think. Link to comment
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