G3LesPaul Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 So, about a week ago, this cute girl was walking towards her dorm, towards me. Ive seen her before. So when she got close, I looked at her, she looked at me, took a sip of coffee and smiled at me. I was like WOAH. So next time I see her, I was thinking I just go up to her and say: "Hello, im Matt. This may seem forward, but when you smiled at me the other day, it was the most beautiful smile I have ever seen" (which was true) then leave. Is this a good idea? Link to comment
Alabama Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 She might think that is a little strange...I would not say it. Link to comment
Dubb Posted February 1, 2009 Share Posted February 1, 2009 So, about a week ago, this cute girl was walking towards her dorm, towards me. Ive seen her before. So when she got close, I looked at her, she looked at me, took a sip of coffee and smiled at me. I was like WOAH. So next time I see her, I was thinking I just go up to her and say: "Hello, im Matt. This may seem forward, but when you smiled at me the other day, it was the most beautiful smile I have ever seen" (which was true) then leave. Is this a good idea? I would not say it like that. It's too direct. Just say you're incrediby cute and I want to get to know you better. I am late for class(or something else that makes you look busy) but give me your number and I will call you. Link to comment
G3LesPaul Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 anyone else think its bad? What if i word it different? Link to comment
lila... Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 I would not say it like that. It's too direct. Just say you're incrediby cute and I want to get to know you better. I am late for class(or something else that makes you look busy) but give me your number and I will call you. I agree with Dubb. It's a little too forward, even for me-I'm really romantic and melt with those kind of phrases- but you don't know her so she might be weirded out. Link to comment
epsilon2x Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 So, about a week ago, this cute girl was walking towards her dorm, towards me. Ive seen her before. So when she got close, I looked at her, she looked at me, took a sip of coffee and smiled at me. I was like WOAH. So next time I see her, I was thinking I just go up to her and say: "Hello, im Matt. This may seem forward, but when you smiled at me the other day, it was the most beautiful smile I have ever seen" (which was true) then leave. Is this a good idea? That's a horrible idea. I would not say it like that. It's too direct. Just say you're incrediby cute and I want to get to know you better. I am late for class(or something else that makes you look busy) but give me your number and I will call you. So is this one. At least the first part. Why don't guys understand this? When you get a girls number and get her to hang out with you, its understood on both parts what's going on without verbalizing it. You don't have to BS her with the "you are cute", because if she wasn't cute you wouldn't be asking her out. If you see her again. Start up a funny conversation then throw something like this in there, "Later this week I'm going to XXXX it's gonna be awesome, you should come along." Then don't ask for her number like its a question of whether or not you are going to get it. Hand her your phone while you're talking and say "Cool just put your number in my phone, and I'll call you right now so you have my number saved" This way is so much easier to get a girl's number. Just don't sound like a robot or look nervous when you're doing it. Link to comment
G3LesPaul Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 Well, since I have yet to see her again in a week, is it creepy to message her on facebook asking her to go somewhere? What should I say? Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 Then you are'nt getting it cos she wants you to have it, you practically forced it on her... Link to comment
Salucious Posted February 2, 2009 Share Posted February 2, 2009 If you see her again, and she smiles at you again, I'd maybe say: "nice smile, I'm *******, what's your name?" Saying she has the most beautiful smile you've ever seen will seem too over-the-top and/or desperate. Link to comment
G3LesPaul Posted February 2, 2009 Author Share Posted February 2, 2009 So ill scratch that idea but what about messaging her on facebook if I cant see her for a while? Link to comment
epsilon2x Posted February 4, 2009 Share Posted February 4, 2009 Then you are'nt getting it cos she wants you to have it, you practically forced it on her... You are absolutely right. All my conquests happened because I forced a girl into doing something she didn't want to do... not Link to comment
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