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  1. Yeah, two dates is too soon for most people. You have to give it more time so she can become comfortable with it, especially if she's shy. Lol this thread reminds me of a date I went on with a guy some time ago. We met at the mall and at one point, he reached out to hold my hand. I was uncomfortable with this, as I don't really hold hands with someone who isn't my boyfriend. He told me near the end of the date that he liked me but it more than likely wouldn't work out because I didn't feel comfortable enough to hold his hand. Oddly enough, we still went on a few more dates but his rythym was
  2. Like it was mentioned, to give sound, objective advice, you have to look at the situation from the outside and keep a cool head- in other words, you have to be emotionally detached from the situation. Otherwise, the advice is affected by our emotions and feelings and that doesn't make it as right. That's why a lot of people could be good at giving advice, but when it comes to applying it to their own situation, it's very difficult to keep a cool head about it. A lot of times it's difficult to separate our heart- that isn't to say we shouldn't follow our heart, but mostly we should listen to ou
  3. I used to be the same way. It got to the point where some of my nails got soo tiny!! There was NOTHING that could help me, not even that bitter tasting nail polish that people suggest- it actually made me want to bite them more. Nothing helped, until I met my boyfriend and I was really embarrassed about him seeing them- I was around him all the time so I would have to write, eat, hold things differentely so he wouldn't see them. He also always made comments about me biting them and asked why I never got a manicure, so it became evident he didn't like them. Then he outright asked if I could let
  4. Well it's not always assumed that when a guy approaches a girl, he's out for one thing. Mmm I guess I'm the naive one. I've embarrassed myself before by saying, "I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend." and his reply was, "Oh I wasn't interested in you that way." Either way, we can't win! What's a girl to do.
  5. I didn't fall in love but it was the closest thing I felt to it. I don't regret it.
  6. This is why I think guys should be open about their intentions from the very beginning, all this confusion would be avoided. Sometimes it's hard to know whether a guy is romantically interested or just wants to have fun as friends.
  7. Ha, same here. My boyfriend talks and talks....I'm the real quiet one. I don't like talking, I prefer listening, that's one way I'm really different from the average woman. And I don't ever talk just to talk, I always think through what I'm going to say...that's why often I don't end up saying anything. hehe.
  8. Still no I really do hope they make it, do take them to the vet or get checked somewhere as soon as possible, right now that they're babies and without their parents they're the most vulnerable.
  9. Please let us know how it goes with the bunnies! Long ago when I was a lot younger, my brothers found a wild baby rabbit by the mountains, they brought it home and gave it to me. I placed it in a shoebox with grass and lettuce but I think it was too tiny to eat. I bottlefed it (with a doll bottle- it was the only thing we had)...and I don't know if it was the milk or the fact that it swallowed the bottle nipple, but the very next day it died I was crushed and cried all day.
  10. You don't have to trust him. He lied to your face, and he seems pretty immature, so he doesn't deserve your trust. Just walk away and don't turn back.
  11. Maybe it was her first time asking somebody out and wanted to see if she would get a positive reaction. Who knows, it baffles me too.
  12. Oh, so a boyfriend can complain about his girlfriend wearing "sexy" clothes but of course, he can check out other girls who happen to be dressed the same, right?
  13. This is exactly how I feel about the way I dress. I don't like attracting too much attention to myself so I never dress too sexy. That's why I find it a bit offensive he would make comments like that.
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