"Good Girl" Question

[Jess2006]

Ok, I have a very quick and general question. But what do men usually mean when they say "I think you are a good girl. And I think that's great!"? I've been told this or something similar recently and in the past, so I'm a little curious.

[poloplayer]

The overarching theme is that you are not promiscuous, but it can definitely include other traits & qualities about a person.

[annie24]

you're not promiscuous, you're not a 'party girl' getting drunk every night, you seem like a solid person, etc....

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

^^ Basically, yes. They see you as stable, maybe dependable, though maybe safe.

[ghost69]

i say that about every girl until proven otherwise.

[Mutley]

i say that about every girl until proven otherwise.

 

I reserve judgment.

 

I've been fooled before.

[ghost69]

I reserve judgment.

 

I've been fooled before.

 

i give all girls a fresh chance. that's why i said until proven otherwise. i think you agree with me.

[midnightrambler]

Ok, I have a very quick and general question. But what do men usually mean when they say "I think you are a good girl. And I think that's great!"? I've been told this or something similar recently and in the past, so I'm a little curious.

 

you do everything that is expected of you

[Mutley]

i give all girls a fresh chance. that's why i said until proven otherwise. i think you agree with me.

 

Yea....you are right.

[Jess2006]

So when you guys say at first you have assumed she is "good," is this based on looks, or the vibe, or personality. Do any of those traits go into account?