Encouragement, anyone?

[the lonely heart]

Hi... I was wondering... Does anyone have any encouragement such as stories of getting back together with your ex? thanks

[Oddjob]

Hi... I was wondering... Does anyone have any encouragement such as stories of getting back together with your ex? thanks

 

Hopefully ill have one for you come saturday, go see my topic a few threads down from here.

[spaceandtime]

Not if its just going to make you harbour hope. Everyone is different. Every relationship is different. Concentrate on yourself, and if its meant to happen, it will.

[majord23]

Not if its just going to make you harbour hope. Everyone is different. Every relationship is different. Concentrate on yourself, and if its meant to happen, it will.

 

Excellent post.

Some people *do* get back together...and others don't.

If they *do* get back together, sometimes it lasts...and sometimes it doesn't.

There are lots of stories - happy stories and not-so-happy stories....the point is, no matter what has happened in others' relationships, it won't affect yours....everyone's situation is unique.

 

I once got an ex back using no contact...and it ended (for good) 3 months later....it doesn't mean that next time I'm in that situation that the same fate awaits me.

 

There is no set formula, no set rules...but there are some things you can do to maximise your chances (no contact etc.). Even then though, that isn't a guarantee....as 'spaceandtime' said "Concentrate on yourself".

 

Good luck lonely heart....I truly hope that one day you can start a thread telling us a happy ending to your story.