Bad Wolf Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Venting... My ex text me today and Ive decided not to text her back. She only asked me how I was but it's not gonna do me anygood by texting her back. What i dont understand though, is why she's texting me. It's been 3 months since we broke up and she knows ive been in nc with her for over a month now, what's she trying to do? It actually made me feel better when I decided not to reply, dont know why though. Maybe this nc business is starting to work, I just hope I can keep it up. last thing I want is to turn up at her house drunk again... had to sleep in my car that night and I can tell it wasnt much fun! Link to comment
pushforward Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Venting... My ex text me today and Ive decided not to text her back. She only asked me how I was but it's not gonna do me anygood by texting her back. What i dont understand though, is why she's texting me. It's been 3 months since we broke up and she knows ive been in nc with her for over a month now, what's she trying to do? It actually made me feel better when I decided not to reply, dont know why though. Maybe this nc business is starting to work, I just hope I can keep it up. last thing I want is to turn up at her house drunk again... had to sleep in my car that night and I can tell it wasnt much fun! Wow, I've been in your shoes. Even driving to her house and telling her how I miss her. Eventually, I got tired of hurting and change my #. You're strong for not replying, it would bother me and I would eventually break down. Out of sight, out of mind. Be strong! Link to comment
onewithbooks Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Bravo for being strong BW. it's not gonna do me anygood by texting her back More truer words have not been spoken. Link to comment
greensleeves Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 There's absolutely no point in texting her back...she just wants to keep tabs on you, but your life is none of her business now. You've made the right decision. Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 Thanks guys, if she keeps texting me i'll prolly change my number. Link to comment
franfran Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Wow, weak! On her part of course. Sorry you have to deal with that, but you're so smart in not dealing with it at all! I'm sure it must feel good to have the upper hand. Make her wonder and don't give her the satisfaction Take care Link to comment
mr_m4x Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Well done. My birthday was 2 weeks ago and she contacted me on msn, said "I called you earlier and left a voice message, don't know if you've heard it. Happy birthday, have fun". My answer was a simple and polite "Thanks". Complete door slam in her face! I know that if I had extended the conversation, it would've made MY day miserable. Link to comment
atlanticstar Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 Great stuff BW. You're the MAN Link to comment
babes23 Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 I think you're doing the right thing by not texting back and i admire your strength, well done you. Just goes to show that nc can and does work and i'm sure you can see a difference since you first started the nc. Link to comment
NewPhillyGuy Posted December 1, 2008 Share Posted December 1, 2008 I feel you, brother. Good work on not responding. You and I are in the same club. Btw, I looked at some of your photos you took - amazing, man. Link to comment
Bad Wolf Posted December 1, 2008 Author Share Posted December 1, 2008 I feel you, brother. Good work on not responding. You and I are in the same club. Btw, I looked at some of your photos you took - amazing, man. Thanks, I was really tempted to text her last night for some reason, I didnt in the end though. Thanks, but I wouldnt go as far as to say they're amazing lol. Link to comment
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