Trying to get it to work out

[gnarlyhoc]

I have been hanging out with this girl for a good part of the summer. We tried a relationship early on, but it didn't work out at the time. She wasn't 100% over her ex. Which was fine with me so we have kept it sort of light since then.

I was thinking of trying the relationship again, but the problem is she goes to school pretty far away. And i don't really know her feelings about the situation. I haven't really had a good chance to ask since we have both been a little busy. Sometimes it sounds like she does want it, and other times she doesn't seem as interested. I know i should just ask her, but i guess im a little nervous about the outcome. She has been away for the past week or so, and i have heard from her almost everyday. And when we do talk it is usually her that initiates the contact. So i do know that the interest level is there. She even surpised me one day when i was working and we went out to lunch. She also makes comments about hanging out when she gets back, and taking trips to the city. But i know it would be hard being in a relationship 700 miles away. And I am a little stumped on how to ask, and what exactly to say.

 

Any advice would be great, thanks

[Xetra Dax]

This is a little tricky, the thing is that its best to have a girl that is within your circle of reach. If its an LDR, then you have to make it a SDR, or in other words overbridging the long distance by living within her vacinity. But you know you'd have to make some serious steps and start a relationship and live together with her. I think the main question you have to ask yourself , is it worth it? If you say yes, then i would do the effort, if you don't feel its worth it, id break it off and find someone who is available to you.

[ghost69]

'i think we should give it another shot.' all you gotta say.

[gnarlyhoc]

Yeah, that's probably what im going to say. I have to do it, because i don't want to fly out there if we are just going to be "Friends". I think i have gotten enough signs that she still wants to be more, even after all this time and her leaving in a few days. I'm still not sure how women work, but i know if i didn't think the distance thing would work out i wouldn't be letting the girl take me out to dinner and giving her a goodnight kiss whenever we are together. I got nothing to lose at this point anyway.