help i snooped his emails? what am i doing !!:(

[prettyhate]

ok so anxiety is killing me lately im doing my head in with questions

today i snooped he changed his other passwords EXCEPT his hotmail accounts he has 2 and i went in there today

WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

its so annoying he is doing uni exams and i read he is going to drinks with all these girls from uni

and also going to get pissed after the exam at this club RIGHTNEAR mycounselling on the same night omg

hELP ME

he doesnt know i go in............. but its cruel i wish he would change it

arghhhhhhhhhh

i mean its not the end of the world

i just feel so rejected and useless and like i am nothing he has however downloaded my fave bands new cd on itunes

weird.

thats my BAND i liked NIN first

help

[BrokenDuc]

how long have you been broken up?

sounds like you are still in panic stages

[Cognitive_Canine]

you need to find some guys to go out and have some drinks with.

 

Calm down now.

[Crazyaboutdogs]

You have no right to go into his personal email. You two are broken up and he has a right to do whatever he wants. If you want to heal then it would be advisable not to snoop in his emails...I am sure you wouldn't like it if he snooped in your emails. He might be your ex...he may even have treated you badly..but you have no right to invade his privacy.

[prettyhate]

he used to always get me to check stuff at work

for him so i know his passwords

its 1 month and a bit and i was doing fine

it hink he knows id check it.......

[Cognitive_Canine]

well, then maybe he didn't change his password to make you jealous!

 

Don't let yourself hurt your progress.

[BetterKarma]

I think you should stop reading his emails. It's only hurting you.

 

If you really want to him to change his password, you do have an option.

Just change his password for him, so when he tries to log in he won't be able to until he can verify all his info and then he has to change his password.

[JadedStar]

When someone isn't even a couple it should be criminal activity to be looking at their perosnal email accounts.

 

If he were smart he'd change the passwords.

[musicguy]

agreed. Checking someone's e-mails without permission is invasion of privacy. It's like stealing your neighbors mail and reading it. To the OP-- Don't check his e-mails anymore. I don't know why some people choose for their SO's to check their e-mails knowing that they have that person's password.

[annie24]

you really need to stop. if nothing else, forward him an email about internet security with a recommendation to change his password, and hopefully that will give him the hint.

 

hon, and trust me, you weren't the first one to like NIN.

[Litgirl01]

Ughhhhhhhh!! That's like opening Pandora's Box! Don't do that to yourself anymore...it's self-torture and it's dishonest! When you feel the urge, do something to take your mind off of it! No better way to stay stuck in the pain!