Trying to get the second date...

[lady00]

oh i forgot to say that my first call, i left a VM, and she returned my call the evening after. so basically i haven't really had an unanswered call yet...

 

Sounds good...keeping things balanced/even is a good sign, especially when you've just started dating someone new. Give her a call when you get a chance to set something up.

[enkymion]

I am going to try to do contact her tomorrow instead of today. I thought about it and if I was hitting her up today on my bday (she knows) it might make me look desperate.

[lady00]

I am going to try to do contact her tomorrow instead of today. I thought about it and if I was hitting her up today on my bday (she knows) it might make me look desperate.

 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Good luck getting the second date. Don't lose sleep over it though. I hope you're having a great day!

[enkymion]

Appreciate that by the way... So basically I'm gonna go for it tonight. Wish me luck!

 

Any last tips? Perhaps how I should leave a voicemail? Should I refer to my texts?

[enkymion]

I feel like I should call with purpose... So I'm trying to figure out something to ask specifically to do; rather than just ask are you free.

[enkymion]

OMG, I can't wait until tonight to call her! I'm confident! I wanna do this!

[enkymion]

No answer... Voicemail left. Game over.

[annie24]

well, wait and see, she might return the call. give it a few days.

[enkymion]

It's just frustrating because when I actually really like the girl, things never progress. It's only when I'm pursued does things ever take off. I just don't get it...

[enkymion]

Just want to bring the story to a close... Got no call back tonight. Thanks for the help guys. Just gotta move on.