dumper, be honest, do you check ?

[npc24]

i know its really petty but im wondering if you were with someone and you loved them and you dumped them and it was a tough breakup. A breakup that seemed to last forever until you finally stopped trying to be friends.

 

Do you check out the myspace page? do you ever even wonder whats going on?

if so, how long did it take you to stop or do you still pop by once in a while?

[melrich]

I don't think I would. I'd probably want to put some space between us in the first instance.

[npc24]

i dont mean space, i deleted him as a friend. im saying do you think about the person and even though you left still check their page?

[melrich]

That's what I meant. I wouldn't check their page.

[JeckyllNHyde]

I wouldnt either. Maybe as an ego boost if I where self absorbed or to see if they are ok. Maybe to see if they have said anything about me on the page.. (bitter ex syndrom).

[npc24]

so you dont just cuz you are over it? or cuz you are bitter?

 

im talkin about when you do the dumping.

[melrich]

so you dont just cuz you are over it? or cuz you are bitter?

 

I wouldn't because I wouldn't want to be reminded of her. Just because you do the dumping does not mean you have no feelings for the person. I may look in a year or two when we had both moved on.

[npc24]

wow im so surprised at this i must say. i would assume that he looked just out of curiosity or because he still had feelings.

sounds to me like you wouldnt cuz it would be painful

[JeckyllNHyde]

so you dont just cuz you are over it? or cuz you are bitter?

 

im talkin about when you do the dumping.

 

No no.. I mean maybe the ex is bitter who I dumped. SOme exes tend to write stuff about exes or refer to them.. especially on myspace and such social sites. I dont have it anymore.

 

I'm sure ur ex must look at your page. Just not like he stalks it or anything. Maybe an occasional glance.

[npc24]

oh ok, yeah i had nothing but nice things to say about him, even though hes horrible to me at this point.

he dumped me.

he doesnt stalk mine like i stalk his ahah im guessing

[JeckyllNHyde]

haha i wish there was a way to block myspace lol.

I have been checking out an exes myspace, and i dont even like him or want to be with him. boredom i tell ya..

[jengh]

oh yeah... i stalk my exes. I've broken up with all of them and have no romantic interest anymore but i like to keep tabs.

[npc24]

what do you keep tabs for? to make sure they havent moved on?

[greywolf]

what do you keep tabs for? to make sure they havent moved on?

 

I keep tabs on all my previous exes as well. I don't want them back though. I think they are losers. heheheh

 

It's just out of curiosity when I'm bored.

[Landon]

ya check up on my ex's from the past, but not the current one because i dont want to see what she's doing cause i know it will hurt more.. i would never drive to her house to see if she's home im not that type of guy..

[npc24]

thats my thought exactly.

i guess i hope he looks so that he sees if im with someone else and he'll come crawling back. fat chance.

 

GREYWOLF, please dont refer to people you dumped as losers. Since we dont the details of them it doesnt make anyone feel good. honestly.

[greywolf]

thats my thought exactly.

i guess i hope he looks so that he sees if im with someone else and he'll come crawling back. fat chance.

 

GREYWOLF, please dont refer to people you dumped as losers. Since we dont the details of them it doesnt make anyone feel good. honestly.

 

npc i have never dumped anyone except for one guy that cheated on me.

[npc24]

my bad.

well id love to hear more insights on this