happytobealive Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 So I masurbate about every two or three days, I only started masturbating about 4 weeks ago. I cant seem to finish the job, I've never orgasmed before. At least I hope I haven't, because if i have then it was a total let down. Back to the question, i get myself to the good part but then my body starts to go stiff and for some reason I can't finish my self off. Any tips??? Thanks. Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Do you enjoy visual stimulation? Maybe some pornography? Or a picture of your celebrity crush will do it. Plus I hear chocolate makes people pretty randy. Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Your body starts to go stiff, hm . . . where, exactly? Certain parts of it, or your entire body? Why do you stop when you go stiff? You probably haven't orgasmed. If you did, you'd know it without a doubt. Link to comment
happytobealive Posted April 25, 2008 Author Share Posted April 25, 2008 Do you enjoy visual stimulation? Maybe some pornography? Or a picture of your celebrity crush will do it. Plus I hear chocolate makes people pretty randy. Well i dont have a problem getting hot really. But i might try it. Your body starts to go stiff, hm . . . where, exactly? Certain parts of it, or your entire body? Why do you stop when you go stiff? You probably haven't orgasmed. If you did, you'd know it without a doubt. Just my arms and legs mostly, right at the good bit I don't know why this happeneds. Oh good I dont think I have just gotten right to the brink. Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Well, when you get to the brink, that's the point at which you need to KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING - lol. Don't stop. Why do you stop? Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Or a picture of your celebrity crush will do it. Plus I hear chocolate makes people pretty randy. So you're saying she should munch on some Godivas while staring at a picture of Brad Pitt (for instance) with his shirt off? LMAO!!!!!! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 hutz is on the way over to help you with this issue. just keep trying. Link to comment
happytobealive Posted April 25, 2008 Author Share Posted April 25, 2008 Well, when you get to the brink, that's the point at which you need to KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING - lol. Don't stop. Why do you stop? My arm stops moving... Maybe im alone in this... Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 well you don't need your whole arm a couple fingers will do...maybe try buying a vibrator...focus on relaxing your muscles...breath deeply as you are doing it...imagining your breath flowing in to your pelvic area. The deeper you breathe the better the orgasm... don't let yourself tense up...focus on relaxing your muscles...and on the sensations you are feeling...take time to explore your body while you touch yourself, stroke your stomach, your breasts...your inner thighs....seduce yourself LOL...when I masturbate I make myself work for it...LOL!!! Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 I am a self proclaimed doctor. "Now how does this make you feel, are you arroused? Okay we will have a session three times a week. Please shave." Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 well you don't need your whole arm a couple fingers will do...maybe try buying a vibrator...focus on relaxing your muscles...breath deeply as you are doing it...imagining your breath flowing in to your pelvic area. The deeper you breathe the better the orgasm... don't let yourself tense up...focus on relaxing your muscles...and on the sensations you are feeling...take time to explore your body while you touch yourself, stroke your stomach, your breasts...your inner thighs....seduce yourself LOL...when I masturbate I make myself work for it...LOL!!! i forgot what i was doing when i read this. lol Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 i forgot what i was doing when i read this. lol haha...just trying to help a girl out is all Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 well you don't need your whole arm a couple fingers will do...maybe try buying a vibrator...focus on relaxing your muscles...breath deeply as you are doing it...imagining your breath flowing in to your pelvic area. The deeper you breathe the better the orgasm... don't let yourself tense up...focus on relaxing your muscles...and on the sensations you are feeling...take time to explore your body while you touch yourself, stroke your stomach, your breasts...your inner thighs....seduce yourself LOL...when I masturbate I make myself work for it...LOL!!! I used to hook up with a girl who took a dildo and got a small suction cup and attached it to her washing machine during the spin cycle. I was grossly interested in watching her she never let me, but I guess it got her off. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 I used to hook up with a girl who took a dildo and got a small suction cup and attached it to her washing machine during the spin cycle. I was grossly interested in watching her she never let me, but I guess it got her off. Ummm i am a pretty simple girl myself...I like to get off the traditional way when it is just by myself...that my friend sounds dangerous LOL Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Simple is sexy. I get kinda worried about the girls who need toooooo much stimulation. Thats alot of pressure on a guy. Link to comment
kuiks8 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Simple is sexy. I get kinda worried about the girls who need toooooo much stimulation. Thats alot of pressure on a guy. haha i can imagine!!! intimidating!!! Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 haha i can imagine!!! intimidating!!! Intimidating, yes, b/c of the sizes of our vibes and dildos! Link to comment
Catdancer Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 So I masurbate about every two or three days, I only started masturbating about 4 weeks ago. I cant seem to finish the job, I've never orgasmed before. At least I hope I haven't, because if i have then it was a total let down. Back to the question, i get myself to the good part but then my body starts to go stiff and for some reason I can't finish my self off. I fantasize alot when I pleasure myself. I'll start out on my back with a vibrator, slowly massaging. I let my mind wander and just let myself relax and enjoy the sensations. Touch your self in other places, get to know what feels good to you. It's when I get the tingling feeling that I know something big is coming. So, I'll speed up or switch positions. You're making love to yourself, so try different things. No one else has to know, right? I'll flip over, lie on my stomach and put the vibrator on my clit and along my lips, and just ride it. Start out slow and soon the sensation is too much. The big "o" comes in no time. I also fantasize that I'm riding someone's mouth, or something to that effect. That usually does it. Dont shy away from the feeling, just let it wash over you. The point is that you should take the time to explore your body. Once you can bring yourself to orgasm, it will be easier for your partner to pleasure you too, because you'll know what you like. Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 Oh hell yeah. After I dealt with the washing machine girl I had to think about what was expected of me. Giant 12 inch dildos! YIKEs. Im hung, but i cant follow a twelve inch, vibrating donkey dinger thats all nubby. Have you seen the stuff they sell in sex shops? YIKES! its like guys are goin outta style. Link to comment
Benthruit Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 A couple of my female friends were talking about this and one used the bath tub spigot. Just turned it on and got under the flow of water. Women like the hand held shower heads too right? Good clean fun. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 A couple of my female friends were talking about this and one used the bath tub spigot. Just turned it on and got under the flow of water. Women like the hand held shower heads too right? Good clean fun. my first real gf used to do that. i got to watch. actually turned me on. Link to comment
knightNshiningarmor Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 sounds like you need to just force yourself to keep going when you reach that cusp a lot of girls tense up right before...lol usually have to really hold them down...once i swear a girl was going to pop my head right off with her legs lol... Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 lol @ ^ very funny Link to comment
Whiplash Girl Child Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 A couple of my female friends were talking about this and one used the bath tub spigot. Just turned it on and got under the flow of water. Women like the hand held shower heads too right? Good clean fun. OMG I love the bathwater. Just lying under the faucet with my legs on the wall. Shower heads never seemed to do much for me, though. Link to comment
Lionel Hutz Posted April 25, 2008 Share Posted April 25, 2008 OMG I love the bathwater. Just lying under the faucet with my legs on the wall. Shower heads never seemed to do much for me, though. Oh wow! I never thought of that being a guy. So the ladies get off under the guise of bathing. How hot. Link to comment
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