Does she still love me?

[DanaWinsted]

Ok, I'm a lesbian and I have been with this girl for almost 2 and a half years. Lately, she's been acting different. We are in a long distance relationship so we don't see each other a lot, but we do try to talk everyday.

 

Lately, we haven't been talking as much. But that isn't the problem, cuz I know she's been busy... However, she never shows affection on the phone anymore. She rarely tells me she loves me, so I usually initiate it. She hasn't been very sexual with me, like she has been before. But still we do talk a lot, but more like friends and we laugh and stuff, tell each other about our days, etc.... But basically I dont' feel LOVED.

 

It's been two years, and she's been very affectionate this whole time, up till about the last 3 weeks. We're still close like best friends, just I don't feel like she's my girl. If it makes a difference, she started taking a new birth control pill the beginning of the month. So what do you all think? Is she still in love with me?

 

PS: when I ask her she says i'm just paranoid.

[sweetdreamy]

Why is she on birth control? If you two are lesbian, no chance of pregnancy there. Not to start worries, but did she just get on birth control? If so, she may be getting it on with a man. Maybe thats why shes acting funny. (Not trying to be harsh, just asking)

[DanaWinsted]

she uses them for her cramps and stuff. I know she's not fooling around with someone else for sure. That's not a concern. So, is my question of "does she still love me" still relevant? What do you think?

[sweetdreamy]

I was on a birth control that made my moods out of wack for about 2 months. That could very well be it.

She could be under stress, too. School, work, family, whatever. Everybody goes through it.

Point is, I wouldn't worry too much. Sounds like you two are happy and have nothing to worry about.