Empathy Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Is it ok for a guy to masturbate at the least once a day if he's in a relationship that involves intimacy? Masturbating once every day isn't too much, right? I ask because the guys I've dated in the past only masturbated a few times a week. Maybe even just a couple of times. So, I'm not really sure. Once every day doesn't seem like too much. But from my experience it does at the same time. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I've dated/known guys who masturbate many times a day even while in a relationship that involves sex, as long as it isn't getting in the way of your performance during sex with your partner or the person isn't choosing to masturbate over having actual intercourse with the other I don't see a problem with. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I don't think it's too much either, otherwise it would surprise me Link to comment
poloplayer Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 It really depends. I see that you are 22. When I was 22/23 a couple of years ago I was dating someone 21/22 for about 2 years. In the summer when we didn't have class and work, we were having sex up to 8 times a day. After she passed out, I would log onto her laptop and jerk off to porn - sometimes twice, even after having sex 5+ times that day. Then again, I'm a little crazy. Link to comment
eurocar Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 It really depends. I see that you are 22. When I was 22/23 a couple of years ago I was dating someone 21/22 for about 2 years. In the summer when we didn't have class and work, we were having sex up to 8 times a day. After she passed out, I would log onto her laptop and jerk off to porn - sometimes twice, even after having sex 5+ times that day. Then again, I'm a little crazy. Wow, that's pretty hardcore (pun slightly intended). I'm 18 and I don't feel the urge to j/o more than 3-4 times per week. Guess different strokes for different folks (pun def. intended). Link to comment
Taomagicdragon Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I don't do it at all and am a virgin. Some people just don't have that particular urge. Link to comment
eurocar Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I don't do it at all and am a virgin. Some people just don't have that particular urge. I'd say with reasonable confidence that you are in the minority, good sir. Link to comment
Taomagicdragon Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I'd say with reasonable confidence that you are in the minority, good sir. I always did consider myself one in a million. Link to comment
android12 Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 yea i agree with above, if its not affecting how you perform then go for it Link to comment
poloplayer Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Wow, that's pretty hardcore (pun slightly intended). I'm 18 and I don't feel the urge to j/o more than 3-4 times per week. Guess different strokes for different folks (pun def. intended). Yes, I'm pretty crazy in this respect, but my hormones have slightly adjusted down since then and I'm not as crazy as I used to be. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 it's your body. do what you want when u want. Link to comment
cleo_gurl Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 I agree if it is not affecting how he is proforming in bed then there is no problem with me. As long as I'm getting what I need I don't care. Link to comment
Belgian girl Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Wow, that's pretty hardcore (pun slightly intended). I'm 18 and I don't feel the urge to j/o more than 3-4 times per week. Guess different strokes for different folks (pun def. intended). So do you guys think this number would suit a minority of people too or just more? Just wondering b/c I can imagine it could be important to be together with someone with about the same sexdrive Link to comment
Empathy Posted January 16, 2008 Author Share Posted January 16, 2008 I agree if it is not affecting how he is proforming in bed then there is no problem with me. Well, it does affect things... But I guess there's really nothing I can do about it. Thanks guys. Link to comment
downward spiral Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Agrees with all posters, as long as it does not interfere with the intamacy of your realtionship then by all means, rub away. I been with my lady for 7 years and i rub it out on avg of 3 times a week and it does not affect the sex with my better half. Once, I even caught her doing it the shower and she freaked like I was not suppose to know. She said that it was cause she was horny and we had my family over. I told her it made me hot and we went into the closet and had a quickie. Man, one of the best 3 minutes of my life. Link to comment
winchester3 Posted January 16, 2008 Share Posted January 16, 2008 Downward, i just realized that both of us made our 222 post today! Exploding rocks all round. I'm at about 3-5 times a week, or when ever my tent pole is preventing me from doing stuff around the house, a quick rub usually takes care of that. Link to comment
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