EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 It does NOT go that far. LMAO!! The things you need to learn. LOL. Yes, He's just a baby though. Give him time and experience. Well, not you! lol Link to comment
LadyBrandon Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Yes, He's just a baby though. Give him time and experience. Well, not you! lol I must admit that he is a baby and no, he would not be getting experience from me. LOL. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Yes, He's just a baby though. Give him time and experience. Well, not you! lol *chuckles* One day he will look back at saying this is disgusting and be like "man what was I thinking!" Link to comment
tommy_bud Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Man I wish I've been with a girl who squirted. It'd be totally awesome. I'd still make her sleep in the wet spot tho. Link to comment
someguy88 Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Squirting is absolutely f'n hot!!! I've never had a pregnant woman, but I think that I'd be pretty afraid of hurting the baby if I were. If he's telling you that squirting is hot; if he uses the word "hot" then believe him. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Some men are a bit daunted by squirting. Kind of freaks them out a bit. Seems he may like it when not during sex but maybe it just mildly freaked him out a little during. I wouldn't worry about it so much. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 20, 2007 Author Share Posted October 20, 2007 Man I wish I've been with a girl who squirted. It'd be totally awesome. I'd still make her sleep in the wet spot tho. Haha HE changed the sheet. I've got him trained goooood. lol just kidding. Some men are a bit daunted by squirting. Kind of freaks them out a bit. Seems he may like it when not during sex but maybe it just mildly freaked him out a little during. I wouldn't worry about it so much. Actually, he seemed super excited. He kept saying "holy shyte! My Honey is a squirter!" over and over. He was like a boy at christmas.. But. He. was. limp. He never tried to finish with me, or didn't want to try again, he just left me in the room to continue reading, and waited until i was asleep to finish him self off. I don't get it still. Link to comment
cleo_gurl Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 I would prob ask him why he didn't finish earlier with you. It wasn't like you weren't there or anything you guys were actually doing it but he left then decided to jack off after your asleep. I would ask and not being mean about it but just bring it up. The getting limp thing wouldn't bother me but if is happening all the time I would prob talk to him about that too. Good luck Link to comment
JadedStar Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 Quote: Originally Posted by JadedStar Some men are a bit daunted by squirting. Kind of freaks them out a bit. Seems he may like it when not during sex but maybe it just mildly freaked him out a little during. I wouldn't worry about it so much. Actually, he seemed super excited. He kept saying "holy shyte! My Honey is a squirter!" over and over. He was like a boy at christmas.. But. He. was. limp. He never tried to finish with me, or didn't want to try again, he just left me in the room to continue reading, and waited until i was asleep to finish him self off. I don't get it still. Just because he said that and seemed excited doesn't mean that at the same time he wasn'y daunted by it. He may have heard of this and thought how erotic that would be and even found it erotic when you were getting off on your own while he watched, but then when faced with it happening during intercourse it wigged him out a bit. How old is he? I could imagine this being true moreso for a younger guy, under say the age of 28. If my husband and i were having sex and for WAHTEVER reason he couldn't finish i would feel very hurt and disrespected if he waited for me to go to sleep so he could finish himself off. Even if he went limp there are other things we could do to get each other off and i would not feel respected if he just left the room like that and went to read and finished when i was asleep. Your b/f really sounds immature, sorry to say. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 22, 2007 Author Share Posted October 22, 2007 He's 36. Yes, I know what you mean, hence my thread. It really bothered me that he'd do that. But at the same time, i'm pregnant. He's said that he's scared of hurting the baby. ~ Which i figure is just an excuse because when we do have sex. He isn't more gentle, he gives it to me hard and fast as always. But he's also been put out by the fact that I don't come all the time. I don't because he never gives me C stimulation... which somehow magically changed on sunday I mentioned it one time after he felt put out when he couldn't make me O. But I guess it never really hit home until I had ejaculated with a toy. Another thing was I addressed the problem, of him not seemng to want sex with me, and addressed his porn addiction. This put pressure on him, and he kept telling me to leave it alone and let it fix it'self. He's been more sexual over the past week than he has been in the past 3 months. But not HE doesn't come all the time. *sighs* I don't get it. Could it also be alcohol, and the fact the he masturbates t o porn so much that makes him not come all the time? Link to comment
rafalaf124 Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Absolutely Ellis. this is a problem i tend to have with my girlfriend sometimes. When i am in the mood she isn't, and so i'll masturbate instead, only to have her be in the mood two hours later. when that comes around my stamina isn't at the same level. Sex every day or every other day is important. You should talk to him and ask him for some really slow hot sex. he might think that he needs to go fast in order to come. i used to think that. prove him wrong but yes, alcohol and frequent masturbation are exactly the reason your husband has trouble staying hard for you. Does he try to engage in sex at inopportune times or not at all? because if he does it at inopportune times perhaps you could try to be a little more accommodating so he wont feel like he needs to go off and masturbate. on the other hand, if you're the only one who gets aroused then it's a separate issue that needs more communication perhaps. Link to comment
1WayTicket2Norway Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 Later on at night he was giving me a back rub with my new massager, and he got turned on doing so. It ended up in us having sex. Except he wanted me to use the massager as a stimulator at the same time. So i did, and the result was a huge orgasm and me squirting, while he was still inside me. I seriously thought "squirting" was a myth like something you only see in pornos.. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I hate the fact that I do it! All it meant to me is that I need to change my sheets. I really hate it, so much that I stop my boyfriend mid orgasm (that's my orgasm btw) just so that I won't do it. It doesn't bother him at all though, and he likes to just get a towel and then tell me not to stop him. Link to comment
Roscoe Posted May 21, 2009 Share Posted May 21, 2009 I don't mind it, means I'm doing something right and that my wife is enjoying herself. Link to comment
ColorBlue Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 Yanno. I read through the whole thread, and now I've forgotten if you said this has been happening a lot or not. Uhh...I'll just talk about the occasion you're mentioning a lot. I've read in other threads before that some people like to give their SO an orgasm, and then they can stop. I think it was something like "The sex being good doesn't necessarily mean I had an orgasm". Maybe he just wanted to get you off at that moment, and then he felt later that he wanted to have his orgasm then. I dunno, I'm just presenting another possibility. You could mix and match everything that the others have suggested, and then you might have your reason. -Too Much porn -Worried about hurting the baby (common fear) -He just wanted to give you an orgasm at the time. -Or Maaaybe he's starting to develop ED. It could be one, or it could be a variety of those reasons. Link to comment
1MoreChance Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 if he goes limp, stops wanting to have sex with you, checks on you while you re reading so he can go watch porn and then goes masturbate to porn as opposed to wishing to have sex with you, then he has a problem ... to me that is a problem in the relationship. and to those who say "squirting is for men"... open your minds, that is SO narrow-minded. And for the girls who say that, your prejudices are turning you off your own body and its potential for pleasure. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 It's not a prejudice with me it's just..well it soaks my sheets and I hate that! Link to comment
zedtech Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 I love it when my girl squirts for what it's worth. Link to comment
Roscoe Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 It's not a prejudice with me it's just..well it soaks my sheets and I hate that! Put a towel or a t-shirt down. Works for us. Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Put a towel or a t-shirt down. Works for us. Yes my boyfriend said that so we do but when sex is unexpected or in an unusual place we don't always have one there! Link to comment
Roscoe Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 Yes my boyfriend said that so we do but when sex is unexpected or in an unusual place we don't always have one there! Then you don't need to worry about the sheets getting soaked in unexpected places then! Link to comment
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