EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Well, Mine and my bf's sex life has gotten a little more active since my last thread on it. But of course it's not the same as when i wasn't pregnant. He's gone limp on my quite a few times since we've been having more sex, which is very worrisome for him. Because this is a new problem. Can watching porn lower your libido? Anyway, I went home at lunch yesterday, and we had sex. He stopped in the middle of it and jokingly said "that's all you get" When I looked down i seen that he was only half erect. I figured that was why. But he started again, and he finished. Later on at night he was giving me a back rub with my new massager, and he got turned on doing so. It ended up in us having sex. Except he wanted me to use the massager as a stimulator at the same time. So i did, and the result was a huge orgasm and me squirting, while he was still inside me. After that happened, he got a toe cramp (why do i think it was a fake one?) and when he pulled out and tried to fix it he was semi flacid again. He's a huge fan of squirting, and it was the first time durning sex that it happened... He seemed excited about it, and kept telling me how hot it was. But after he got rid of the cramp, he took off out of the room, and didn't have no desire to finish. Like he was in a rush to get it over with? After that, he kept checking on me while i was reading. Like he was in a hurry to get me to go to bed. I thought that was unusual, so I went to bed, but didn't sleep. Well, as soon as he thought i was sleeping, he went to the computer turned on some porn and i heard him jerking offf. * * *??? Link to comment
beauty21 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Girl, I don't think guys care too much about that. I guess, if it happens it happens. But they won't leave a girl that doesn't squirt for one that does. Sex is sex. Can watching porn lower your libido? I don't think so. Maybe the amount of times you jerk off maybe. Still I don't think so though. Link to comment
dan39 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 If he is masturbating to porn lots then I think it would make him less horny with you, because he has already expended his sexual energy. beauty21 is right squirting is not going to be a major issue. Personally I find it horny but thats besides the point! Anyway he's already said he loves it to you. What about if you both try some new things, spice things up a bit. Watch some porn together or copy it maybe. Link to comment
MarkD Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 my thoughts on squirting = ewwwww!!!! Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 MarkD....I think I agree! Squirting is for the men! His libido may be decreased because you are pregnant. It's a psychological thing for men sometimes. He will get past it, hang in there. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Wow, I can't believe i've actually heard a few males say "eww" to squriting. all i've ever heard about it is, that female ejaculation drives men insane. In a GOOD way lol. That's why i was so stumped when he got so excited and tld me how hot it was over and over.... but he was limp... and finished himself off after he waited for me to go to sleep instead Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 The part about him finishing to porn rather then with you ....may be a concern. If I were you...I would tell him that I wasn't fully asleep and heard him. Ask him why he would feel the need to do that when you're readily available....and willing! Maybe he finds doing it with himself to be quicker...idk. But ask him whats up! Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 The part about him finishing to porn rather then with you ....may be a concern. If I were you...I would tell him that I wasn't fully asleep and heard him. Ask him why he would feel the need to do that when you're readily available....and willing! Maybe he finds doing it with himself to be quicker...idk. But ask him whats up! I'm kind of scared to. Because ever since we've gotten back together, or i've started showing, sex has been an issue between us. ~ Me wanting to talk about it just made it ALOT worse. He kept telling me to leave it alone. I'm scared if i bring it up, it will start a whole other series of problems like it did before. He is addicted to porn. But he's also been losing his erection, which has NEVER happened until recently. He's also said that he feels weird about sleeping with me cause of the baby. But sex has become more frequent well, this week anyway. This has been the first time we've had sex during the week in monthes! Usually it seems that he will onlly initiate on weekends when he doesn't really have a chance to watch porn. It makes me feel so... yucky lol. Very unattractive. But he tells me how beautiful i am on a daily basis. I can't wait to have my baby. lol Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Oh..you're still pregnant? I misread your post. I thought you had already had it. Well...that does change things. some men can really get freaked out doing it when you're pregnant. Seriously. He may tell you that it doesn't bother him...to spare your feelings about it...but really, it does affect some. Like, they don't want to bop Junior on the head. lol Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Oh..you're still pregnant? I misread your post. I thought you had already had it. Well...that does change things. some men can really get freaked out doing it when you're pregnant. Seriously. He may tell you that it doesn't bother him...to spare your feelings about it...but really, it does affect some. Like, they don't want to bop Junior on the head. lol Yeah, I am still undecided about whether he was telling me the truth about that. Because, he says that he's scared to hurt the baby.... sex is ALOT more infrequent.. but his "style" hasn't changed. When we do, he's still pretty rough. Hard and fast with him all the time ... lol If he was really scared of hurting the baby, and still turned on by me, i'd naturally think that we'd have sex just as frequently, but more gentle. Doesn't that make sense? Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Yeah, I am still undecided about whether he was telling me the truth about that. Because, he says that he's scared to hurt the baby.... sex is ALOT more infrequent.. but his "style" hasn't changed. When we do, he's still pretty rough. Hard and fast with him all the time ... lol If he was really scared of hurting the baby, and still turned on by me, i'd naturally think that we'd have sex just as frequently, but more gentle. Doesn't that make sense? Gawd, what I'd give for that! lol Anyhoo...well, you and I would think that..but maybe it never crossed his mind. my ex wasn't that logical. I bet he thinks so much about hurting it that thats why he goes limp. Too much pressure. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Gawd, what I'd give for that! lol Anyhoo...well, you and I would think that..but maybe it never crossed his mind. my ex wasn't that logical. I bet he thinks so much about hurting it that thats why he goes limp. Too much pressure. lol, I like it hard and fast too. But, i would like it slow and gentle at times. It makes me wonder sometimes. In the three years we've been together... we've never made love. We've always *to put it in his wordss* f'ed... You are probably right. But he's mentioned when we were having problems (meaning me talking about the problem *rolls eyes*) he told me that it has happened while he was masturbating as well. So I'm not sure. I've just thought of another thread idea about this situation. Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 I may be the only guy who thinks this but i think squiting is disgustingggggg. I think if my gf were to do it, i'd turn the other cheek and barf on the floor. Makes me queezy just thinking about it Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Squirting.. Like a hose squirts water. Up 2 like 20 or 30 feet away lol Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 LOL..google is your friend. No, they say it isn't pee. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 I feel so naive, but I'm not sure what you guys mean by squirting? Is it associated with a woman having an orgasm? Is it pee? It's female ejaculation. It's a g-spot orgasm. The first time i had one, I was super embarrassed because i thought it was pee. But it's not. It's huge right now in the porn industry. They even have instructional videos to teach men how to give their woman g-spot squirting orgasms. Link to comment
JeckyllNHyde Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Like, they don't want to bop Junior on the head. lol LMAO~~ ROFL!!!!!! Hahahaahhaaha!! too funny! Yea I agree, did you see the movie Knocked up? it's a comedy but still like most comedies has so many things which happen in real life.. Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 I wonder if girls have fun with this? Like putting a penny on there "hole" And a cup accross the room and try to shoot it in the cup? lol I HATE SQUIRTING AHHHH lol Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Wow, i'm actually super shocked that i've found even one or two guys on here that think it's gross! Different "strokes" for different folks I guess Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Don't try to get her to have one buy eating her out. She'll shoot you accross the room lol. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Don't try to get her to have one buy eating her out. She'll shoot you accross the room lol. Ohhhh!! now i understand.. Your 17! You'll like it better when your older honey. LOL Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 LMAO~~ ROFL!!!!!! Hahahaahhaaha!! too funny! Yea I agree, did you see the movie Knocked up? it's a comedy but still like most comedies has so many things which happen in real life.. Yes, we watched it together. We both related to each character in a few ways. It was a good movie to watch while being pregnant. I wanna know how to give my wife one then... You use the "come hither" method. Insert 2 fingers inside her and curl them alittle so your fingers are pointed towards her belly button. At the same time push down gently on her pelvic bone so you can massage the g-spot better. Or you can go the other way and use a massager on her clitoris while you are having sex with her. That's how we did it lastnight lol. It was awesome. Link to comment
doyathink Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 LMAO~~ ROFL!!!!!! Hahahaahhaaha!! too funny! Yea I agree, did you see the movie Knocked up? it's a comedy but still like most comedies has so many things which happen in real life.. Yeah, I seen it. Funny as hell. But I think a lot of men really do have that fear. Link to comment
EllisBreaks Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Yeah, I seen it. Funny as hell. But I think a lot of men really do have that fear. After reading threads on here, and on another forum, Yes.. you are right. ALOT of men do. One more reason why i can't wait to have my lil dumpling. Back to crazy wild sex!!!! lol Link to comment
LadyBrandon Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Squirting.. Like a hose squirts water. Up 2 like 20 or 30 feet away lol It does NOT go that far. LMAO!! The things you need to learn. LOL. Link to comment
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