prodigy child Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 my boyfriend and i have a good sex life, but during sex i sometimes feel like i am getting more out of it then him. He always cums but i'd like to do more. Can anyone give me some techniques or suggestions that i could use to give him more pleasure in bed? Link to comment
Papillion Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 try playing with his ass during sex. works for me. Link to comment
Papillion Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 damn, did i say that out loud? Link to comment
prodigy child Posted July 20, 2007 Author Share Posted July 20, 2007 i am willing to try anything but i dont think my bf would be into that. We've had anal sex and both enjoy it but he freaks out if i ever joke about anything even remotely "gay". his ass is definitely off limits. Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 i am willing to try anything but i dont think my bf would be into that. We've had anal sex and both enjoy it but he freaks out if i ever joke about anything even remotely "gay". his ass is definitely off limits. Do you give him oral? If you don't, then do. And while your down there, gently suck on his b**ls. Link to comment
Papillion Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 oh hon, he doesnt know what he's missing. tell him his g-spot is up there. Link to comment
prodigy child Posted July 20, 2007 Author Share Posted July 20, 2007 yes, i give oral often. I dont mind doing it but i dont think i am very good at that either because he always takes a long time to cum through oral sex. Link to comment
Papillion Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 Do you give him oral? If you don't, then do. And while your down there, gently suck on his b**ls. i so totally agree with this advice. Link to comment
Scout Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 his ass is definitely off limits. --giggles-- sorry, your exchange with Papillon made me laugh out loud... On a serious note, though...how about extending foreplay and concentrating on other parts of his body, not just the obvious ones? "Frisky" talk always enhances the experience too, I've found. You could also give him a leisurely sensual massage before going into foreplay. Link to comment
prodigy child Posted July 20, 2007 Author Share Posted July 20, 2007 where is the g-spot for a guy? maybe i could talk him into it. Link to comment
StarLily Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 where is the g-spot for a guy? maybe i could talk him into it. watch the movie called Road Trip haha Link to comment
dannycee Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 how about you tell him how youre feeling ? nothing like communication in the bedroom, i found it helps a lot. you guys can both help each other become better lovers. Link to comment
IGotAGoldStar Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 I think that when sex is getting boring that taking matters into your own hands and making one night just about him freshens things up. You do not allow him to stimulate you. You lay him back resting comfortably and pleasure him every way you know how. Start with massage, kiss and nibble, exclude the sex organs. Work your way up from his toes licking and tickling. Straddle him and kiss his lips. Strip for him. Prop him up on pillows for a good view and suckle him. Turn around, lower yourself and ride him so he can watch. Don't make him do so much as support his own weight. Do all the work, pay attention to everything, and maybe in there somewhere you will pick up on sexual cues from him that will spice up a normal bedroom night. Link to comment
Diablo7000 Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 g-spot for a guy is the A-hole, why do u think gay guys are always goin for it LOL!!!!! but seriously it is, so i've heard anyway, just kinda mess with that area it'll set him off a lil more Link to comment
prodigy child Posted July 20, 2007 Author Share Posted July 20, 2007 how about you tell him how youre feeling ? nothing like communication in the bedroom, i found it helps a lot. you guys can both help each other become better lovers. if i talk to him about it, he would say that i shouldn't worry, that i'm great and that he happy and i don't need to improve. He's like that, he doesn't lie to me but is afraid to hurt my feelings and wants to reassure me, even if it may not be true. Link to comment
dannycee Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 is he open to new things though? like if you ask him "hey lets try something new that i read about" do you think he would go for it? Link to comment
prodigy child Posted July 20, 2007 Author Share Posted July 20, 2007 probably, depends what it was. Link to comment
dannycee Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 well hmm, i dont think there is a problem. some ppl are just quiet in bed, does not mean someone is doing something wrong, im sure he is feeling as good as you are. you are worried about not pleasing him, looks like that is not the problem. if YOU want to do more, then just go for it, read up on different things u can do, foreplay etc. massages all that stuff and just dive in. plan a special night with him in advance so he is prepared, i know i like that. Link to comment
Bonzophuebes1 Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 The surefire best way to please him, TURN ON ESPN, GEt him a beer and give him a hummer while he drinks and watches the tube. Dont do it all the time but try it once. You may be surprised. Link to comment
mitch17 Posted July 20, 2007 Share Posted July 20, 2007 have his favourite football team on the tv while sex.. i reckon thats a charmer Link to comment
Scare Posted July 21, 2007 Share Posted July 21, 2007 Maybe start sucking his testicles. And i agree with others the g-spot is the * * * * * * *. But try licking his balls or something like that. Or whipped cream is good. Orrrr you could try a blowjob plus hand job. meaning only sick the top half of the penis while rubbing the base of the penis. He will love you for ever. Link to comment
Scare Posted July 21, 2007 Share Posted July 21, 2007 damn im getting horny just thinking about that. i need to call my girl! Link to comment
Papillion Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 honey, get a digit up his backdoor then move it like you would if you were gesticulating to someone to say "come here". get what i mean? trust me, it will work. you'll hit the "G". and i'm the straightest guy on the planet. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted July 22, 2007 Share Posted July 22, 2007 to the OP: Just the fact that you are asking this question must make him a lucky guy. LOL Link to comment
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