bigcat22

I have been married 25 years. I have been in an affair off an on with the same married woman for 15 of those 25. At all times I have used escorts even when the affair was hot and heavy. I am now getting ready to file for divorce. So is the partner in the affair. The plan is to be together when we can be open and honest. I can't help but think that even after the divorce and eventual honest relationship I would go back to some of the escorts. Do I love her or is it just sex.

I recently ended a long affair. We were both married. We agreed no contact for at least six months. The theory here is that we are both going to get divorced during the no contact period then reconnect when we can be open. She doesn't want to get dragged into my deal and I don't want to get dragged into her's.

I had a long affair with a married woman. We recently decided to end it, take however long it takes apart to divorce, then get back together when we can be open. She says I am the love of her life but she is on an amazing journey of self discovery and she wants to be the best she can be. I agreed. Any comments on the likelihood of this plan working.