Chilla_freak

Please help!! My period is nine days late! I took a test and it came back negative, but could I still be pregnant? What should I do?

My ex and I broke up after 6 months of dating, and one month living together about a month ago. After being single, he came to me and said that he loves me and realizes that we broke up because he didn't treat me right. I'm very confused, because I love him too, but I had already planned to move in six months. What should I do? I want him back in a way, but I still want to move.

Thanks for all the advice. I think it's going to take a LONG time for us to be friends again. We still fight as friends. He still expects me to take care of him....financially too. I don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't want to be fair...and doesn't respect the fact that I have to put myself first. I think that this man taught me that I'm basically stronger than I thought I was. He wanted me to remain a wounded little girl...didn't want me going to therapy. But I still went anyway, and now I've got self-esteem, self-respect...and I feel pretty durn good about myself!

Thanks for the advice. This will probably help. But what should I do about the club? I counted on him before we were involved to look out for me...but now doesn't even want me up there. What is he so afraid of?

Thanks for the advice Cherry. Being his friend is really tough. We are still fighting over finances....stuff we incurred while living together. I think no-contact for just a bit might benefit us both. But I still miss him sometimes...and don't want him to find someone else, because it would hurt too much.

Like I said in my other post, my boyfriend and I broke up because we don't get along living together, but still decided to remain good friends. I am turning 21 in two months, and he is almost 26. All I can think about is him going up to the club like he did before we were together and picking up chicks. I'm bombarded with thoughts of him with another woman--and it's tearing me apart. What's even worse is that he told me that if he ever saw me up at the club (the only one in town) that he would have to leave. It seems like I don't want him (because he can be a real chauvenist in a relationship) but I don't want anyone else to have him either!!! What is wrong with me!!!!

I am so heartbroken!! I just broke up with my live-in boyfriend just after a month of co-habitation. We started off as really good friends (w/benefits) then decided to try a relationship. We fell in love, and it was okay for awhile, but after we moved in together we found that we were complete opposites and couldn't get along. We ended things pretty well, saying that we still loved each other very much, but it just wasn't going to work. So long story short, he wants to still remain very good friends. I still want him in my life, but will it be too hard for me to be around him? Right now I'm just so hurt, as he is, and confused because we're used to being with each other. I feel like one of my arms was just cut off or something! We are terrible for each other in a relationship--we constantly fight...so why do I miss him so much!? Please help!