blondechicky101

Thanks so much for your replies. I guess my question now is why did he say I love you to me and then a week later tell me he doesnt???

The time will come when you have so many guys asking you out you won't know which one to go out with You're only 15, don't be worrying about what guy is going to ask you out. You should be thinking about what college you are going to go to. You should let it go and when you aren't looking that's when you always find one. Focus on your school grades. That's what really matters in the end. Years from now, no one is going to care about how many guys you dated. You don't get a good career by how many guys you had, its based on your education!! Don't worry you're time will come. You have many years ahead of you

Only you can tell if you are ready for sex. Honestly if you have to question if you are ready for sex, says that you have some piece of doubt. So maybe you aren't ready for sex. Sure sex is a wonderful thing but you have to make sure ready are ready, not only physcially but also emotionally. I was 18 when I lost my virginity and I tell you it takes a toll on you emotionally. Thoughts run through your head like..that's the person i lost my viriginty to, am i going to regret losing it wth him? ..thoughts like that run thru your head and theres so many other thoughts. I'll be honest with you. I feel that if you have to ask yourself if you are ready for sex then somewhere you're having a doubt. Wait. Sex is a beautiful thing and its so special the longer you save it.

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 3 years now. When we first started dating "love" came up. He had been in a bad relationship before me and him where he was with the girl for over 4 years and she broke his heart. He told me that he would never love someone again until he knew that was the person he was going to marry. So now its been over 3 years and he hasnt said "i love you" to me. Then about a month ago, he asked me if I loved him and I said why do you? and he told me he did and so I told him I loved him too. And he never said it to me again. So I asked him a couple weeks ago "do you love me?" and he told me no. He said he cares about me alot but he doesn't love me. I was heartbroken, I told him I didn't know if I could be with him because we had been together for so long and I can't be with someone that I love and they don't love me back.. He told me that he still wants to be with me and he doesnt want to break up. We are still together but the only thing is its hard for me being with him when I know he doesnt feel the same way about me. Does any one have any advice for me??? Why can't he love me and should I continue to be with him?