pilotguide

I'm really worried about my gf being pregnant. The thing is, two months ago we were making out and after she gave me head, afterwards i fingered her, but she was also guiding my hand with hers and i was afraid some of the possible sperm on her hand (during when she gave me head) mite have gotten into her. Anyway we waited till her period time and she had her period (im not sure if it was a day late because her periods are a little irregular) but she told me it was thick and normal so we forgot about it, but coming to the second month (now) she told me that her stomach feels more bloaty than usual and today (a few days from her supposed period, as it is irregular) she told me that she had a discharge which was watery and reddish (which she told me she never had before) so i was afraid that she might be having implantation bleeding (spotting). I want to ask that if she already had a full normal period after we made out, is there still a chance that she could be pregnant? because i always thought that women missed their next period during pregnancy, and that if she did have her period it would mean she wasnt pregnant. Also what else might cause watery reddish discharge that occurs a few days before she should have her period? is this normal? thx for your help, its greatly appreciated

ah i see, thanx for the info, i understand now

ah i see, if she is a few days late after an 'incident' (due to anxiety or stress) but then the next month she has her period, she would be considered not pregnant right? and what 'abnormal' circumstances would she have a period even though she is pregnant? thanks for the infromation

I was wondering, when people say that missed periods could be a symptom of pregnancy, what actually happens? Does a girl have her period late and then have it normally every month thereafter? or does she have it late and no longer has her period till birth? thx for clearing this up.

hey, its me pilotguide again. I agree with heffie that it might have something to do with a self esteem problem. As you know, im have the same problem as you are, and its gotten abit worse for me. It used to be "am i doing enough for her? maybe she doesnt think of me as highly as before" but now its getting to "maybe now that she doesnt think so highly of me, she might turn to another guy, or maybe shes out flirting with other guys when shes out with friends" and it really bothers me. This morning i woke up thinking about awful scenarios about what would happen if it were true..... Most of my life i wasnt a really confident person, and even know im just so-so, and i think this may be a contributing factor to my paranoia, or at least why i have these thoughts. anyways, that doesnt really help your problem i know. Im just saying that i have the same problem you have and we could help each other out. First off, i can say that i feel about 99.8% the way you feel, i always view my g/f as my first priority, and in my opinion i think i do alot for her (even if she may or may not know it). What contributes to me having these thoughts is that i dont think she views me in the same way. I would always go out of my way to please her, and try my best to make her happy, but when its her turn i feel like shes thinking "oh well, i gave it a shot, if hes not happy, then too bad" and i just dont feel the same special devotion from her as i give her.

yes, this is my first relationship, but its not my girlfriend's first either

heya nmarchildon, i know EXACTLY how you feel. I have the same dilema with my girlfriend, everytime im not with her, i feel like maybe shes having fun with friends or enjoying herself without me, and i really feel left out. Everything you say applies to me too, we both love each other very much and i have no reason to feel this way, but like you said i also feel empty when shes not around Although this might not apply to you, the reason i think im having this feeling is that ive become to obsessed over her, i recently posted a msg about this (the obsessed article) and the advice i received was to do other things that would take my mind off her, such as sports or games or watching a movie or something. Though it has not fully worked for me yet, i am feeling abit better. hope this helps oh, and one more thing that might help, i think that like me, what you're feeling is paranoia "does she like me anymore? is she having too much fun with her friends and forgetting about me? why hasnt she msged?" etc, and like me it gets to me a lot, but then i think about it from another perspective, maybe i AM being too obsessed, maybe my feelings for her have made me lose track of whats really importan. The truth is, like both of us know, if our g/f b/f loves us very much and we in turn feel the same, then these feelings are just false impressions made by our mind. As time goes on, i think you'll get used to it think "hey, this isnt so bad, i can live with it"

thx a lot, i'll try my best to focus my mind on other things, though i think the whole procces of detachment will take time

Hiya, im kind of new to this site, but anyways i have a problem and was wondering if you could help me out. Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 8 months, and we're very happy together, never had fights or anything. The problem began when we started getting very intimate in the last few months, and that brought us alot closer. Now i can never get her out of my head, i think about her every day and night, in school, in the shower, when im out with my friends. The problem is, its the xmas holidays now and she went out of town for the holidays, and i still think about her alot....the thing is im having a funny feeling in my heart, its similar to when you're under alot of stress and its a mixture of nervousness and anxiety. I know this is unhealthy for me, and i think its being caused by me missing her alot and always longing for her.....I still love her alot, but i think if i dont do something about my obsession its going to lead to an unhealthy relationship. I was wondering if there are any tips such as activities or something that would help me think about her less and grow less attached to her....nothing seems to work, when i watch tv or read a book i always think about and what she might be doing, and this feeling im getting is really bothering me thx

thx for the info guys, great help !

hello everybody, im kind of new to this forums, and a few days ago i posted something about how i should nibble/lick a girls ear, and the responses i received were very helpful, (thx to those ppl who replied) But ive seem to arrived at a problem... it was said that there was a possibility that desease could be transmitted or obtained through ear licking, and i was wondering if this should be taken seriously. Both me and my g/f are teenagers and we dont have any std's or deseases, but if i were to lick in and around her ear, would there be a possible chance of contracting any desease/rash/infection of any sort? im still new to the making out kind of thing and im a bit worried that i mite do something horrible, so any advice would be greatly appreciated, thx!

thx for the input, i'll just be careful not to make her ear bleed

alright thx, but i was just wondering, when you said you hated it, did you mean you hated to be the person doing the licking? or did you hate being licked?

Hi everybody, im new to this site so hi's to all of you. Im kind of new to the kissing thing, but me and my g/f have already kissed a few times. Based on observations (and quesitons i know that she likes her ear nibbled/licked/sucked on when we take a break during kissing. The only problem is that im not sure how to go about with it. Do i lick the outside/inside of her ear? should i lick the ear hole? or would that make her feel grossed out? any advice would be greatly appreciated, thx!