toofaced12

wow! definitely unexpected. but this is great. i really hope everything works out for you guys. you've been on a tough journey but i'm sure learned a lot during your time apart. Gives me hope as well. lol I guess you never know whats going to happen.

yayyy congrats on your new relationship

Just realized most of your posters to this journal are guys haha. but either way reading your journal has helped & entertained me. Its' interesting to see a guy's perspective through a breakup. How long have you been broken up now? I'm just reaching the 3 month mark after a 3 year relationship and even though I still want him back, i'm happy with where I am in my life at the moment....i'm only 21 haha, got a lot of living to do. Glad to see you're feeling good and moving on

Hi, I've been reading your journal but never commented. Its' definitely helped me! My friends and I are going on a trip to Cuba next month, and planning it has definitely helped me have something to look forward to while going through a rough break up, so have fun in the Dominican!

Day 21. Past few days have been good ones. But today my friend texted me (who is a good friend of my ex's) asking me if I had talked to my ex lately. He told me maybe I should see how he's doing and text him, because apparently he's been drinking a lot since we broke up! My friend also said that he talks about me non stop when he's drunk. Blahh, not sure why he had to go and tell me this, but he must be really concerned to have told me it. So far i've decided not to text him, even though i am worried, not sure what to do here!!! He broke up with me, its been 2 months almost, so not sure why he's acting like this!

This is my first post on here, but I started No Contact 18 days ago, I liked the idea of this thread so decided i'm going to post. We've been broken up for about a month and a half now. No Contact has been hard, but I've managed not to give in to my urges to text him. Today though, he texted me with a really unnecessary text, guess he was just trying to be nice but nonetheless he really didn't need to send me it. We had lived together, and he had just gone over to our apartment for the last time today and I guess I had forgot something there, so he texted me to let me know. Anyways, I didn't respond to him. I am proud i've gotten this far! We were together 3 years, and this is my first breakup. I've been reading this book "its called a break up because its broken" and they recommend you take the challenge no contact for 60 days (they call it a he-tox lol) so that is my goal, to not contact him for that long...well long term goal is to not contact him pretty much ever again! but baby steps...