Nifty_Swifty1

Dal I was the guy at one point in my life, so I might be able to help a bit. Things might not be the same, so all that im going to do is say what hapened to me and if it fits you can take it how you want. In my case I was compleaty taken by my girlfriend, but wasn't getting the feedback from her that I needed to still my mind. I was always fearing that she was one wrong move from leaving me. I couldn't take those thoughts no mater how irational I knew they were so to try and protect myself, but quickly found out that it didn't help at all. I found myself finding ways to be around Lidsey to see if I could get her back. I had been the one that was wrong, so all that I could do was make myself available and hope she would pick it up from there. It would have been easer to just be straight forward, but since I know that I probably hurt her I could make my self do it that way. I had to make shure it was her desishion to be with me. If thats the way things seem to be, then my advice is to slowley move back his way so to speek, and once you're back together don't let a day go by that he isn't absoutly convinced that you're equaly as smiten with him as he is with you. I hope I was helpful, but chances are that it's a compleatly difrent situation.