someguy999

I broke up with my girlfriend last week. A week before I broke up with her, her parents said I was "detrimental" to her and that she was not permitted to see me. I don't know what they are thinking, but I have a friend who I consider to be a good friend. She hates him because she has the wrong impression, and she won't change her mind about him. She told me on the phone that "If you love me, you will stop being friends with him." I told her not to manipulate me, and we were supposed to go to a concert that night, so I told her it was off. Her parents think that I don't like concerts or something really stupid, and put all the blame on me. I just can't deal with this.... I tried to do the right thing, and she definitely didn't treat me the way she should. I just want some advice and opinions on what's going on, and what I should do, etc... I'm thinking I just need to move on and find somebody who won't do this to me.

Hey everybody, I'm new here. Anyways... My girlfriend of 1 year broke up with me this week, tuesday to be exact. Our 1 year anniversary was this past Saturday and my birthday is in a week. I don't really understand it all, because I know she doesn't have another guy or isn't feeling something for another guy, but let me just explain how I feel, and what she has been saying to my friends / putting up on her instant message profile. First off, we've been through a lot, and have a very mature relationship. I almost ended up breaking up with her on Sunday, but she wanted to work towards getting better, because I thought the problem was with her, and I still believe it is. I think this whole thing is very good for both of us, we both get time and space to see if we really are meant for each other, or if somebody else is. We both gave each other so much love and we were talking about marriage and a family, but she ended up breaking it off tuesday, 2 days after she had cried and begged for me to stay with her and she said "I don't know if i could go on without you..." Well I know that's not true, because she very well can go on without me and she is right now. We haven't talked since the breakup, tuesday afternoon, at all. She has put up some kind of awkard things on aol, she doesn't talk directly to me, but it makes me feel bad sometimes, almost guilty like i want to call her. Keep in mind she broke up with me. The other night she had an away message that was like " and "Is this what it feels like when a toy's batteries run dry?"... I don't think it's very fair to broadcast stuff like that, especially when she knows i'll see it, but anyways I don't take it to heart, and I try to see past those. We've broken up in the past, and she ended up calling me like 4 days afterwards saying i made a mistake and i want to be back together all that junk, and we were so happy with each other. I think if she called me and wanted it back again I'd probably tell her not yet, that's why it doesn't hurt me as much as some of you guys, because I'm really trying to move on, but last time she did it, it really did hurt. She asks my friends how I'm doing, avoids contact with me though, and my friends are always like "yeah he's doing really well" and they ask how she's doing and she's always like "bad" or she'll send emails to them that are like " to describe her mood. I don't want to over-analyze, or analyze these things she does, because I don't know how she feels and I don't want to get hopes up. I just want to know what you all think about this, we live accross the street from each other, so it's extremely hard, and I don't know what's going to happen. Please give me some insight on what you think is going on, oh btw she broke up with me because "we weren't getting along lately" and i said i thought we were gonna try and work and that, and she said "we already have and have been trying..." but she was crying when she broke up with me... so i don't really know, but the feeling i get is that she's upset like i am, but I don't know.

Hey everybody, this weekend my girlfriend of 1 year broke up with me. She lives accross the street from me. She told me she thought we needed to maintain a friendship before we could start dating again. I called her that day a lot trying to get it back together because I didn't understand. But school has started and she's involved in a lot so I think she's just stressed. I gave her a couple of days and she called me last night and she told me she loved me and she missed me. I don't understand this because she knows it hurts me to hear that when I can't be with her. Is there any hope for this relationship? Or do I just need to give her time?