space cadet

Okay here is some advice from a chick.. hope you don't mind. You sound like a nice guy... don't let that get you down! She's probably not worth the stress. Not sure if the other guy asked her out first, I guess what I'm trying to say is if he did... then you came along and asked her out, then she could of at least told you that she was interested in someone else and not leave you hanging and wondering... instead she said MAYBE and it sounds like she has made every effort to avoid you! She surely doesn't sound like she's worth it.

Does anyone have any suggestions of a quick way to loose weight? Right now I am at 122 pounds and want to get to 110 pounds. (even getting to 115 would be awesome!) Thanks in advance 8)

Awwh sweetie. I have been through many broken hearts but you need to take a chance. Life is never easy, trust me, with your personality... you will find that special someone. 8)

furios5, Ask her out! You sound like a shy one.... Don't be afraid, take a chance. Being lonely isn't fun.... I should know, I haven't had a date in almost 3 years. Be yourself and take a chance, you'll never know unless you go with your gutt. And like maddoglaccrosse said, it won't be the end of the world if she says no. There are plenty of fish in the sea... please don't let your shyness get in the way. 8)

Oh just thought I would let you all know that just as an FYI, I would never go after a married man if he was "With" his wife and try and break them up. I have known this guy for 3 years and he has never once talked about his wife. He's always raising his eyebrows at me when saying "Hi", so I know that he is somewhat attracted to me. I just kinda get the feeling that he doesn't date co-workers. I have never dated a co-worker or a married man. I've always felt so against that! But with him, I would break my own rules. (But only because I know for sure he is not with his wife anymore). Maybe he's not getting a divorce just yet cause you know... I heard they're expensive as hell.

I really feel that she feels comfortable around you and can be herself. My honest opinion, she is looking for a best friend and you are the one she can relate to. She can tell you anything and also flirt at the same time. I think she likes the attention she gets from you and she knows she can confide in you with all of her problems. She knows she can count on you to be with her through all the thick and thin and can trust you completely. That's rare to find. I'm so jealous of you and wish I could find someone like you that she has found...

Micksbabyboo... Wow! Thanks for the quick reply. No, I didn't think you were being mean with your response. I appreciate the honest input. I can respect the fact that he is still "Legally Married". But at the same time, I really feel that it wouldn't be a mistake to persue this guy. I've been told to go with what your heart tells you, and dang it, I shall never know if I don't. If he's not planning on getting a divorce, then why are they living in separate places? Why did he trade in his Pathfinder for a Mustang? I feel, if a man and woman are just going to be separated, then wouldn't one of them live with a friend in the meantime while they work out their differences and not have two rent payments? And please everyone... feel free to tell me your HONEST opinion! I want to hear them all. Thanks again Micksbaby.

Hello... I need some advice. I work with this guy (I am 25 and he is 23). I will call him Jay. I am so attracted to him. I kinda sense that he is somewhat attracted to me, but can't be too sure. I know he is married, but he never talks about his wife. The other day we were talking and he mentioned that he just moved. I also heard from another co-worker (Greg...) sometime ago that Greg and Jay went out and played some pool together... that Jay said he felt he was tied down to his wife. So I know that Jay and his wife are separated, just cause he mention he just moved. But anyways, this last Monday he asked me what I was doing for the labour day weekend and I said "Nothing, just going to stay home and relax". I then asked Jay what he was doing and he said "Nothing". Okay... today I was down on the production floor working where he does and was hoping he would ask me out... but nope! At the end of the day, I left like 10 minutes before he did cause we ran accross each other on the highway going home. We were next to each other and looked at each other, he raised his eyebrows and waved. I waved back and that was it, he took off real fast and then he was gone. My heart beats real fast whenever I see him, so in other words... I WANT HIM BAD! How do I get him to ask me out? Please advise ... thanks!