bitebenot
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Very true, but only if he ignores her from now on.
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We are on the same line here,i was thinking the same for my ex ! I do know that soon it wont matter anymore..hate takes too much energy,shes not worth it.
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Same for me after four months and a half,thank God ! I feel much better.I got control over my emotions and im ready for spring to come ! The roller coaster rides are a lot shorter.Still mad and pissed at her for the way she treated me but i know her turn will come.But now its about me me and me.The gym gave me a lot back,good shape and self esteem,feels great.I miss her after all but i can deal with it.Im me again,me before i met her.I can see clearly now the rain is gone..lol...At the beginning i was hoping she would call me,now i hope she doesnt... WEIRD !!!!
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Ya,he is a hog indeed...i guess he was always in touch with his ex and never got over her.Maybe he went from one relationship to another too quickly. Seems like they deserve each other.One day he will realize what he lost and wont be able to get it back.I agree,never take him back,hes bad news.
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lol..he is a flunkee...ignore him,i agree..not answering back is the way to go ! He just dropped his mask,now you see the real man behind it.Im sure hes trying to make you crawl to him.You called him a moron..that did make me laugh !
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It shows she still think of you.Keep ignoring her.She will try again.Unless its about reconciliation,you dont answer any phone calls or emails.Your worked very hard to be where you are.Resist at all cost or go back to square one ! Right now its about her needs and NOT yours ! Only listen to the messages when she calls you,DONT answer !
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Take it one day at the time,stay very busy and DONT stay alone ! Go out and take a look at other girls around you.If you dont want to date,talk to them ! Stay with friends and go away on weekends,that helps a lot.Having interaction with other women will shift your mind to a more positive outlook for the future.Soon you will see that she wasnt the center of the galaxy ! Just like most of us here,you will make it dude !
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The only way it can work its for her to ASK and work hard for it ! To go for the gold against the novelty is a waste of time.If you try to compete you will lose and have only yourself to blame for losing her for good.Right now she knows she can have you anytime she wants,why would she stress ? How can she miss you ? Shes got 2 choices,and your second ! If she doesnt come back on her own and with sincerity she wont stay around for long,she will dump you a second time and for good.Its up to you to decide.I propose that you go NC and dont tell her anything.If she wants you badly she will find you.
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Part time NC will never work ! He already knows that you will show up soon or later,Hes a lucky man !
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Make her crawl ! Otherwise it wont work at all ! For her you are her tool ! She will keep you on a tight leash,enjoy your ride.
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Stay away from him.As you can see hes playing with your feelings.NC and ignore him completely.Show what you can do whitout him and dont let this get to you.Hes very immature to act that way.
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To every one here who finds NC very tough,i agree with you all.Is there another option better than this one ? Absolutely not ! Its the only way to regain control of ourselves and our lives.Staying in touch with the ex when you have been rejected is ridiculous ! Their is no other choice,no one has ! Trying so hard to get them back gives the opposite effect ! NC is the only way to get out of that miserable situation.That position could be short or endless.If the ex start contacting again,you could find yourself in the winning position.That means you can become the dumper ! No one has to accept the return of the ex.We are in a state of panic once we are cast aside,thats only natural.Every one here will go for the roller coaster ride,but it will end.Healing can be short or extended,its our choice ! Life goes on with or whitout them ! The less you communicate with them, the faster you will get over it.Who in his right mind would have a desire to stay in touch with a manipulator using you as a crutch ? NC gives you the power to react and efficiently. You need to become the person you were before you met the ex.Using your will power,self esteem and pride will get you over the rut.I personally give 5 stars to the NC after 4 months.Im finally becoming my own self after a short stay in hell.No,the world doesnt rotate around the EX !
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Get a new gf and you will ! Some are still in the same situation even 2 years later.Love can be so strong...giving up all hopes is the way to go.
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Ya, begging is a killer.Its the worse i think to a women.Now you have no choice but to never call her back.No communications of any kind.She might get in touch with you one day after she realizes you have changed for the better.You need to work on yourself.Conversations are much better than arguments.You need to keep very busy.Go out with friends,even date other women.If she finds out you are with another one,it might shake her a litle thinking you are totaly over her ! Moving on is the only way to get a stable life.Stay away from her so she can have a chance to miss you.I agree that you should delete her from your pc and everything else.Keep nothing around you that reminds you of her.I've been there,4 months now and i feel a lot better.The further you are away from her the greater it is.You need to let her go to obtain a chance of getting her back.She might show up in a few months or never.Just be ready.
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Dont you worry,his turn will come.One day he will find a women that will give him nothing but the third degree.
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Yes 3 wishes ! 1 becoming very rich 2 have the best women for me 3 forget my f.... ex Im so tired to think of her,shes draining me dry. ** By the way,if they broke up three times so far,their relationship is doomed. She did play you good,what a swine ! Man,move on,give up totaly on her.If you stay that way,it will be the same by June ! You're only 19,dont waste your best years on her.You know you deserve better and you dont need me too tell you this..you already know it.Sincerly,it wont be hard to fine better !
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I still miss her even after 5 months...but at least the intensity aint the same any more.Dreams,hopes and wishes are gone.What else could i ask for really ? You will come to same conclusion.
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If we are over the ex in about 5 months,does it mean the ex is over us too ? Just wondering.
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Too many if's ! And what she thinks...who cares ! Will she ever come back ? Who cares ! What about YOU ???? Just let go and try to heal ! Hanging on is very bad..you will be the same by summer time ! Is that what you want ? Maybe she will be back and maybe never,so what ! Let her find out what shes missing.Its conceivable that you might dump her one day after she wants you back.You just cant stand by waiting ! She has a novelty,do the same ! You are miserable while shes havings lots of fun.Just say " f... h.." and get out of your rut ! Poor me baby wont do you any good.Go out there and find a women who will be ready to share her soul with you.Give your blessings to your ex and let go,its was her choice to DISCARD you.If she doesnt come back its because destiny had something new and surely better for you.
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If you are tortured right now its only because of you ! She broke up with her new friend,give her time to think ! Jumping from one relationship to another in a few days is too quick ! When shes ready she will let you know.Shes in touch with your grandma,thats a positive sign.Just wait,dont show how needy you are and dont be to easy to get back ! But again, dont get your hopes to high just in case she wants to move on whitout you.One way or the other, you will know very soon.Good luck.
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Thats the problem,when or if the dumper comes back, many would reject them because of the past pain or because the dumpee has a new lover.As for dating,it does take time...but dating can become friendship..so why wait ? If you make up your mind as to reject her in the future you will then be in a much better and viable place.Thats why its so crucial to move on and do everything you can to obliterate the ex from your mind.Thats where i am,will never communicate with her,dont want her back at any cost and all hopes became vapors.Bye bye ex,see you in another life.
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**** Here some quotes for you guys on NC 1 We enter a relationship as s somebody and leave it as a nobody. 2 If you really love something set it free.If it comes back its yours if not it wasnt meant to be. 3 I guess we all make mistakes,you were my biggest. 4 You dont die from a broken heart,you only wish you did. 5 A break is like a broken mirror,its better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it. 6 The hottest love has the coldest end. 7 The heart was meant to be broken. 8 It takes two seconds to say hello but forever to say goodbye. 9 They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. 10 To fall in love is awfully simple,but to fall out of love is awful. SO VERY TRUE HUH ?
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Dont think for a moment that she forgot you..she hasnt ! She is comparing her new friend to you.Memories just dont fade away that easely.Shes fighting against the feelings she still has for you.Her new friend will distract her,but it can only do so much.Give her time to miss you and see what is missing.