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HEHEHE ! LOXXT is turning into a women of steel ! TRYING,listen to her,shes totally right !
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Stop the cry me baby crap ! Hes not for you and thats it ! Stop visualizing him. The day you will start healing is when you will accept the loss and put an X on his name. You pored enough tears and now its the time to move your buns. If he misses you or not.. you shouldnt even care ! I was also replaced ...it doesnt make me a lesser man. I was to good for her,thats it ! Its time for you to get out and seriously search for the right love and not losing time on that wimp ! I never saw anyone crying over a garbage bag at the curb before. Use your pride and proceed. If you think you will see him with his new gf, just make yourself look like a bombshell and make him regret his decision. You know you cant take him back, so why all the anguish ? Leave the moron to his novelty and consider yourself lucky hes not part of your life anymore.
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Lucky you...im waiting for mine to come lol. I am patient tho it might never come ! But even if it doesnt ill be fine. I would just like to tell her to keep on walking !
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You wont achieve anything by calling him. Let him do that no matter how long it takes. Could be months or never ! Just think of yourself first.
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Excellent ! Now whos in charge huh ? lol
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You met her in december...lucky for you ! Short and sweet ! I read your story. Man, she gave you a rough ride almost from the beginning ! Can you tell me why you want her back ? Thank your good star that its over. Even if she came back (she did before) it wouldnt last. And the part that she didnt want you to perform oral sex on her lol ! (she had another bf thats the reason) Why dont you get over her and find happyness with another women ? She even told you that she didnt see a future by your side. Im sure at 99.9 % that you wont get her to return to you (and i hope for you that she wont). You cant say you were in love with her in only in 3 months ! Shes bad news...move on and you will feel better in a month or two. Dont communicate with her anymore and get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Erase her from your pc and phone. Try to find a man that would like to share his life with a women like that ! Send her an email and tell her to never be in touch with you in any way no matter what the reason is. Myself would rather spend time with an hamster instead of her !
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Simple,he was in NC and it worked ! But it doesnt always,lets be honest.
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Are you telling him to be mr nice guy when it didnt work to keep his ex ? When he says to be mean it wasnt to abuse her in anyway. Shes torturing him,she deserves a litle return in a cunning way.Hey,she might even like it.
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Since no one answered let me. Black tight jeans... a buckle belt..... black shoes....red tight shirt...new hair style....an earring....and a brutal perfume. A louder and firm voice (dont exaggerate) Then you walk like your all alone in the world. If your ex sees you and makes a comment,just tell her your ready to go chase women and walk away. NOW thats mean !
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I just listen to the song,its very good and sad at the same time.
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In a hot tub and he rejected you ? Whoooooooooooa ! Are you pulling my leg lol. This is unreal ! I just dont know what to say,im baffled ! Thats when the alarm started to ring i guess. I dont get it,just when his testosterone is at its peak at that age. Well it wasnt me,Thank God !
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Good post ! In short you are telling us hes a wimp whit a dumb broad ! So for you its time to go to the second level,(a real relationship) because this one was sour if you ask me. Whats worse but having to spend time with a spineless man lol. Ill bet sex wasnt all that good either. When i think of your story i wonder what was lost. Looks like a real gain for you. Pain that will pay off after a while,you're almost there. For you its like getting rid of a clunker for a new Cadillac. You didnt have a future with this guy,i mean none. I see a big L (loser) on his forehead. Wont be to hard to replace him.
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What does it mean to you when a women says " i dont want you anymore " ? So NC is the natural way to go. At the same time you give her time to analyse the situation and hope that she will miss you. If you try to keep the line of contact open she will know that she can have you back at any time. Thats not good ! She has to come to you first. The more you will chase her the further away she will run from you. Its not about ignoring her really,its about you first ! You need time to heal and think clearly. At this time she doesnt want you,thats it....its reality my friend. Try to show her that you can move on without her. If you stay attached to her and try to reach her all the time you will be bruised for a long term ! Leave her alone for a few months and in between dont forget yourself and move on,do not wait !!!! Dont worry,she wont dismiss you..she still thinks of you i am sure of that. Dont answer calls or emails. She has to chase you if not she will dump you again,i mean it !
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On feb 20 you said you wouldnt talk to her unless she does first. Why are you changing your mind ? If you do call her be ready to be hurt and deeply. You wont get anything out of her.I mean nothing at all ! Shes the one who has to be chasing you.(if she ever does lets face it). Be patient and wait. While waiting you will be healing and she might be missing you. Right now you would be taking all the wrong decisions. Dont forget,take her back quickly and it wont last ! She dumped you,its up to her to communicate. How long are you willing to stand still ? Hows the pain ? ...can you suffer like this for another 6 months ? Move on,get out and have fun ! Get over her,you have to ! If she comes back good for you...if not you will survive and probably find better.
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Forget the birthday lunch ! Seems that you always find a good reason to be by her side. What are you a masochist ? Be prepared to relive the inquisition. Its imperative that you stay away from her as much as possible. She moved on,do the same. Tell yourself she will never go back to you. Find another gf and start fresh and have your own children. You know shes not for you,be honest here. If she does come back to you, how will you really feel ? Could you forget her past with the other one ? You will be tense because she could leave you again or go back to her rebound bf. Your best medecine is to find another girl and let her know. Shes enjoying every moment of it and wont stop till you had enough of her bs. Get your pride back and tell her to buzz off. Dont be afraid to be rude because shes manipulative in her own way. Many beautiful women on the campus,use your manhood and go to the chase. Date one of her close friends and see how she reacts,you could be very surprise of the results ! Its not about vengeance but a litle payback is long overdue. You can also do it your own way and sink like the Titanic did. Im double your age,been there done that. I know women of that type,they are worthless. Sorry if im rude,but you need a good kick in the behind for you to wake up !
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How can you be so sure she didnt see that email ? I think she tested you just to see if you would answer. You missed an opportunity here. When the phone rings let it go to your messages or take a look at your caller id. She will do it again soon or letter. Ignore her totally and move on unless you are prepared to suffer a few months ! Tell yourself shes gone for good,it will help you a lot. Hope can be a b1tch sometimes. Get another chick and have the fun of your life,dont stand still waiting for an email or for the phone to ring.
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And heres my opinion (as a man) When she asked you to sit by your side,my answer would of been " i rather be alone if you dont mind,thank you " ! Most men would say yes,in reverse psychology its a definite no ! She let you go and thats the price she has to pay ! Reject her at all times no matter what or how much you think you will hurt her.Let her new bf take care of that. When you see her make no conversation with her,its " hi " and keep on walking. If its about work just make it nice and very short. She needs to know that you really dont care anymore. Make her feel like you are the one whos dumping her ! No pity for her my friend,ignore her as much as you can,run away if you must. In my opinion she has access to you a bit to easely. You cant afford to let her have it her way.Rejection at this time is the key ! Dont fool yourself,she knows you still love her,thats women intuition. What she will think of the way you react aint important,its still you first. You are the one who is suffering,just dont forget that part. Gosh its simple,just ignore her !
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Good logic ! Some are still attached yes but some relationships were longer than some others..thats the difference. So for some the healing process will take a longer time than you. Glad you're ok,keep up the good work.
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Excellent ! I know our brain is acting strangely sometimes and against our own will. I still do sometimes after 5 months but easyer to deal with. The worse for you is done,you can start to relax a bit now,all will be fine. You will find yourself at the same point before you met her,just a bit more to go ! Dont give up, you worked hard to get there. 5 ***** to you !
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Now you know better.It happens,dont beat yourself for it.No friendship,forget that option for your own good. Seems nc will be full term for you unless shes willing to have you back otherwise move on and forget as much as you can. As i always say,you first her last. Its painful but nc is your best friend. Think of your next relationship instead and be ready for it. Being rejected twice is more then enough right ? By the way, she will or already has someone else. But who cares now.The less you know the better it is for you.Get rid of everything that reminds you of her and clean your computer from her inprint. Become a ghost and give her all the space she needs.Just dont have to much hope,it can be toxic for you. Go and enjoy yourself as much as you can even if your not in the mood,it does work ! Lots of pretty women out there,make a pick and move on.
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if you will contact her again just be ready for anything including rejection. You have to do it when your not so vulnerable and be able to move on whitout to much pain.Personally i think its a bit risky.The timing could be off. You know her better,just be ready and think twice before you do. Wouldnt it be better if shes reaches for you first ? Your choice,just be wise. Returning to square one wont be a funny ride as you already know.
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I still ask myself the same questions and i never find a good answer.But hes the loser,u aint ! Even if he comes back to you it wouldnt be the same anymore.You would probably dump him a week later.See things in another view,he doesnt deserve you,i mean it ! Your way to good for this bum. He dropped you just like you wernt important. So fuc... him ok ? You should ignore what your heart says and listen to logic.
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Be cool,its been only a couple of weeks...keep remembering his bad side.Dont call him,its going to hurt you even more.Just hang tight,it does get better.Right now its a roller coaster ride and thats when its so hard to stay in control.Just dont give up and think of yourself,be first and him last.Dont forget this,he doesnt deserve you !
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Ask a friend to call her and pick up your phone.Or she can drop it at a friend.