Jump to content

professorplum

Gold Member
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    577

  • Joined

  • Days Won

    1

 Content Type 

Everything posted by professorplum

  1. professorplum
    2000SVT. Create your own individual thread on this whole story. You will get more hits and replies then which might help you to come to terms with what is happening. If you start from the beginning and get it all down there ought to be some useful comments from people. What has changed since your initial post?
  2. professorplum
    Yes if you put it that way I agree you can't put a value on another chance. It is good to have hope but please don't allow yourself to be set up for extreme disappointment in the future. Easier said than done I appreciate.
  3. professorplum
    If you want to cling to a glimmer of hope I say make no reference to the ring at this stage because that will just create bad feeling. Give her space for the time being and try and get on with your life as best you can and see how things are when she returns. Her head may be a lot clearer then. My concern is if you push now things could dramatically go downhill. Leave her with a positive memory of you and see where it takes her in the future. Try and be your normal charming self.
  4. professorplum
    I for one have enjoyed reading your posts and appreciate the time you spend explaining your situation and highlighting your viewpoint. I hope you will continue to do so.
  5. professorplum
    Is this yet another example of having to let go before you stand any chance of getting them back ?
  6. professorplum
    Great news Scotsguy I admire your focus and self discipline. You sound as if you coped with this remarkably well.
  7. professorplum
    Yes it could be that she is playing games and is missing the attention. Very hard for you when you know she has someone else. Not easy but you might have to tell her not to contact you unless she is interested in trying again.
  8. professorplum
    Why does she keep calling you and texting you when she has someone else? Surely that makes it so much harder to undertake NC.
×
×
  • Create New...