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Day 1 I find when I have nothing to do I really sit and fret about things. I have been doing that today. I just have a head full of questions - "Is she thinking about me at all?" "Has she forgotten the REAL me?" "Does she still love me?" "Who is she with?" "Do I mean anything to her anymore?" I miss her. I really do believe that we can work things out. She just wants freedom from the insecure/paranoid boyfriend she had. I don't blame her. That's not much fun is it? I am scared however. I am realising where I went wrong and what I need to improve on to show her that I am serious about her enough to want to change. My fear is that she won't see these changes and will get with someone else.

My advice is to just go out together and see how it develops. You don't want to come accross as being really forward. It's going to be shocking for her and I think it's best if you take her out somewhere really nice and maybe give hints to her. For example, go somewhere that you normally go so it doesn't seem "full on" or intimidatiing for either of you. When you're out just maybe flirt a lot more than you already do, or just test the water. Casually ask her whether she's interested in anyone and leave her guessing. You might find she likes you. These things take time. I've rushed into relationships before and those are the ones that end in tears. Being friends first is a good thing. Be patient with it. Don't go running in. It will probably scare her off. Just try to let it evolve naturally. You can't force things, but you can certainly try to tweak things up a bit.