weapon_x13

For years i've known a girl i'll call Star, i've been in love with her and for a couple of those years i had a solid relationship with another girl. Once me and her broke up, me and Star had a night while she was on a break with her boyfriend. Ever since i haven't been able to get her outta my head. She's back with the boyfriend now. I don't wanna ruin the friendship by laying it all out for her and besides i'm pretty sure she knows how i feel about her. In the past week, I hung out with just her for the first time in a long time, and we had a blast, drank a few drinks and clearly noticed that spark in her eye. After that night, i've seen her a couple times around other people including her boyfriend (who use to even cheat on her...the bastard), and in big groups we barely talk to each other and she kisses the guy in front on my face, as if there is nothing in her heart for me. I've battled this fight for a very long time, but she's worth it all...at least i think. I've never loved anyone this much, but i feel like an underdog comic book character. in other words WHAT THA' FUDGE SHOULD I DO!!!

For years i've known a girl i'll call Star, i've been in love with her and for a couple of those years i had a solid relationship with another girl. Once me and her broke up, me and Star had a night while she was on a break with her boyfriend. Ever since i haven't been able to get her outta my head. She's back with the boyfriend now. I don't wanna ruin the friendship by laying it all out for her and besides i'm pretty sure she knows how i feel about her. In the past week, I hung out with just her for the first time in a long time, and we had a blast, drank a few drinks and clearly noticed that spark in her eye. After that night, i've seen her a couple times around other people including her boyfriend (who use to even cheat on her...the bastard), and in big groups we barely talk to each other and she kisses the guy in front on my face, as if there is nothing in her heart for me. I've battled this fight for a very long time, but she's worth it all...at least i think. I've never loved anyone this much, but i feel like an underdog comic book character. in other words WHAT THA' FUDGE SHOULD I DO!!!

your signature says it all sweetheart...you know exactly what to do, because for the opportunity to feel alive, you should fear less and fight more... i'm in a situation when i feared so much and fought too little, even if i would've come off pushie, it was a chance, I had a chance.... now i'll never know...but it was a chance

i really need help with this one. I have a friend that i met 4 years ago, me and her got close while i was secretly in love with her, but she had a boyfriend. We became as close as brother and sister, one day after she and her boyfriend broke up, i told her how i felt... she said no... we kept being friends. Later she met this guy and they started a relationship, this bloke cheated on her and showed no affection, i hated him. I started giving her up even as a friend because she was insanely attached to him and it just plain hurt me to see a friend be in pain but being too obssesed to do anything about it. I started dating her roommate, we had a great relationship for over 2 years. i never heard from this other cat during this 2 year period, and yet i secretly still thought about her from time to time. When me and my girl broke up about 4 months ago, i run into this girl like the next night...we make plans to hang out the following day. The following day comes and we talk about old times and about how her and her guy are still sleeping together but they're not together. That night we go to her place and we're drunk and stoned off our asses, and we start cuddling...that turns into making out, making me feel like i was alive for the first time in my life. I say things like "it's funny how this is happening now and yet 2 years ago you wouldn't give me a chance" and she replies "i always had feelings for you, but you always had bad timing", and it's true i did. She also sez things like "i could barely look at you with your ex, when you were together" implying that she felt jealous. The night passes, i leave, 2 nights later we talk again and she says that it's not a good idea for us to be together...we talk, we drink, we end up making out again. After that night things went down the sh***er. We again talked and she explained how (to me all of a sudden) she was still obsessed with her ex. Things got progressively more and more awkward after that night, and i even hung out around groups of people where she was still hovering around this moron who even 2 years ago she knew he was trash...so i'd just drink the night away. Like i said, things kept getting more and more awkward, and before i could flat out just tell her that my feelings for her were reawakened and that i love her, i never heard from her again...i feel like because of all this i didn't even get reaquainted with my old friend, that also hurts deeply. it's been a month and a half since i've heard from her...she's back with the idiot boyfriend and i still think about that night and want her immensely... what's my next move?

well bub, what's absolutely amazing is that i'm going through an extremely similar situation, but i'm afraid things didn't work out for me. See, me and this cat USE to be great friends and didn't speak for a long long time...when we made a new attempt to be friends my old feelings for her resurfaced, i haven't heard from her in some months because i guess she felt too awkward...hell i did too. At least you let her know how you feel, i never did...she ran before i could tell. So you got that on yer side, at least you're not living with what if's, because i can only wonder if me actually telling her how i feel with cunning words could've done me any good, but i just don't know. On the other side, if you guys are as close as you say you are then you shouldn't worry...if worse comes to worse (her not calling) then take you're time to re-invent yourself, preoccupy yerself with hobbies or activities, feel like you don't need her to make yerself happy...and i'm sorry about your depression problem, i use to take celexa some years ago, luckily i dug out of the deep hole i was in with help of a friend, but that's a whole 'nother story. Ok so just do things until you feel relieved of the pain/awkwardness (er at least to some extend) and then you make the call. Follow your heart but not at the expend of your mind and fight for what you want...and remember if it's not her now...then it could be her later, or someone even better. e