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hahahaha, oh man, this is funny stuff. Not your situation or anything just all the women and bashing and stuff, oh man hahaha. to funny. My advice would be first off, you know women, don't say somthing like that, not only is it gonna create bias among other people who read the message but your only gonna get pissed off replies. As for your situation, if I were you, I would load up my possesions and make a plan, but then talk to her just before you plan to leave. Tell her you wanna move on and unless she's gonna cut you or somthing, you've got nothing to lose except leaving her in a little more of a gentle way. I mean, i don't think you wanna intentionally hurt somone that bad do you? I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want to feel like the way you feel right now ever again in your life, so imagine if somone intentionally made you feel that way? Just tell her and try to help her understand taht your not compatible and, to put it bluntly, your a mooch.

It's just hard for me to not call her and tell her how I feel because it's what we've always done right up to the day she broke it off. I'm confused as hell.

Thanks shy guy....it makes sense Is there any girls who have an opinion on what happened? I also have no idea how to approach the topic of re bulilding with her, because she just freaks out and won't take me seriously.

Hey Amber, This is not really a weird situation. Coming from a guy I'll tell you that the whole getting off too quickly thing is a great concearn. Because for a guy, sex is about getting off everytime, they automatically think that thats what it is for a girl, which in most cases it is. I think a lot of women enjoy sex emotionally and physically and if they don't get off evertyime, it doesn't seem as great of a concearn for them. Let him know that somtimes it makes you feel sexy when you get him off real quick. Let him know it mkaes you feel as if he really loves you and it's proving that to you in a different way. If he his concearned with how long he is taking, there is a term called "clearing the pipes" haha, this is where guys masterbate before having sex to make it last longer. Have you ever considered sitting down and watching the porn with him? This can acutally be exciting to some girls too. Mind you have him pick out one thats not to out there, but thats my advice. Let him know you like it when he gets off fast somtimes and also just try watching porn with him. Not all the time but every now and then. If he can stop associating porn with masterbating and start associating it with amazing sex with you, then it could swing around pretty quickly. Hope it helps.

I think that now that you've let her know your interested she may either feel awkward or maybe she is interested and excited that somone different is interested in her. But first off.... do not think for one minute that this girl is "the one" becuase thats where you can turn a relationship wrong. If you feel excited and happy then thats understandable but don't translate that into feelings for "the one". Second, find out about her bf, ask her how he is and stuff and how long they've been together. This will one, be obvious to her that you wanna know if theres a chance of them breaking up, which is ok for her to see, and two you can find out if they are a new couple or a long term one. Chances are if it's long term, she may just be caught up in the excitment of somthing new with you but chances are, she's going to stay with her long term bf. Hope it helped.

I would love to help you out with your problem but perhaps you could talk in actual language. It's hard to read somthing and take it seriously when all I see it "r u going 2 still b fwds wit him" Sorry, just some advice

Hi, I'm just lookig for some opinions on this because i'm so confused. I had been dating this amazing girl for almost two years. We were so close and we were so in love, I knew it was there. I went away to university and our love got really strong because we couldn't see each other. So eventuallly when I finally came home we spent so much time together. WE did lots of stuff and had so much fun. It was going great. After a while we didn't do much sutff but just hang out with each other and we bickered a little but not alot. I knew we were spending to much time together and was about to say somthing. But then one day she just decided she wanted to break up with me. I couldn't understand this because for the entire week and way before that she would tell me how much she loved me and tell me how much she needed me and could never live without me.... but now she says she feels bored and has lost the spark. I agreed and let her go, have her space. But now she is being very rude whenever I talk to her. She's very mean and acts as if she's busy all the time or has more important things to do. What happened to the sweet girl I was in love with? And how does she tell me how much she loves me one day and break up with me the next?? Also what approach should I take with dealing with her, I want her back because I know she still cares. Somtimes she wants to hang out and talk on the phone and stuff. But I don't know if I should give her that...??