tinal4

thanks for replying to my line.sounds like you have a pronblem too.well no man should feel trapped in a relationship.she needs to get some friends of her own.maybe you should take some time and figure out what you really want.friends or her.from a womans point of view as long as you ain't doing anything bad sounds like she shouldn't worry.in a way i dont' know what to tell you either....

i have been with my husband for over 8 years , we have only been married for 4 years.we have been through alot together and before we got married we were living together and he decided he wanted time apart from each other to explore.after custody battles in court and after days of crying my my eyes out because i wanted to be with him and he didn't want to be with me.finally one day we dropped it all got back together and weeks later got married.well i felt so much love for this man and so much warmth in his touch.i recently came accross a problem.i meet one of his friends and it was like love at first sight.i don't know what it was , we all 3 went fishing together and i got to know him a little.i loved eveything about him.after the fishing trip we all went back to his place and him and mu husband were drinking a little and this guy hugged me.something in that hug just took my breath away.all that strong love i felt for my husband was like gone.i can't keep this guy out of my mind,i have been wanted to tell him but scared he is gonna tell my husband,.i have never felt like this about one my husbands friends...please help.....

hey i was actually looking on the internet for some advice myself on love and i ran accross this website and i read your subject.i have been their and i know it hurts so bad,i was so i love with him and the thing that hurt the most was i had a child with him.we weren't married but we were living together for about 2 years.that didn't help you know.i didn't know what to do because i loved him so much.but i for some reason decided to go out with some friends and meet someone else eventually i got over him.especially when i found out he was dating again.he had been dating some one the whole time i was lving with him.i know your feelings and i know how it hurts.you need to let him know that he can't have his cake and it it too and that you ain't gonna play high school games and put your life on hold for him....what are you gonna do if you and him get married andhe wants time alone again.i hope this helps you,need anymore advice contact me...