My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago after 2 years, due to her liking my best friend and my allowing of it to happen. The past 3 months or so they had gotten together to see movies or something when I couldnt, and it didnt bother me too much because I knew she was happy and having a good time and I trust my best friend (he doesnt like her). But it eventually grew into her liking him, ALOT, enough to end a 2 year relationship, and what seems now, is she, for certain reasons, wants to end our FRIENDSHIP that we've had for the past year. We were a couple that were friends, best friends, and this is why this troubles me so. The first time she broke up with me she came back 3 days later apologizing and we went out for a week and a half until she did it again. After that things were cool for the next few weeks, despite me still loving her tremendously, i held back and tried to stay away and give her space. But on this 4th week she has been very bitter towards me, and she wont tell me why, and Im certain I did not do anything, she says she feels that:
1) she doesnt trust me
2) I bother her (she means how I act..)
3) she acts different around me
These are new to me...Ive never heard this before. I no longer believe that we will be together in a relationship, I mean anything is possible, but it's not my priority. I really just want to be friends, and she said that she wanted to as well last week and before that. We had an amazing friendship and it's all the sudden being thrown out, it seems. I talked with her and she said those are reasons why she doesnt know if she can be friends with me, but it's possible.
My goal is to earn back a friendship that has been abruptly stopped.
Has anyone been in a similiar situation?
advice or help is GREATLY appreciated,
thanks
