My girlfriend and I have been seeing eachother for 1.5 years (she is 22, I am 24), and have been in a long distance relationship for most of that time. There have been no dramatic problems, but the other day she told me (by email) that lately she felt like maybe we aren't right for eachother, and that she now has feelings for someone else. She said we might stay together, but she needs time off from our relationship first.
The day she told me this, obviously I was in bad shape. I love her more than anything in the world and can't imagine living without her. I tried not to seem too upset, but it was obvious that I was badly hurt, and I told her to email me if she wanted to talk, and not to call me (that day, I would probably have broken down).
It's now been a few days, and we haven't talked to eachother. I want to tell her that I'm doing well and have been working to improve aspects of my life other than our relationship. But I can't do that if she, only remembering my being broken and depressed, decides to end our relationship and says so in an email. And the fact that she is with someone else makes it seem more likely that she'll decide to break things off without really talking to me first. If she calls, it at least gives me a chance to tell her how I'm doing first.
So I'm wondering if I should write her a short email telling her that I'm doing well and not to worry about me, and that she is welcome to call me, not email me, when she's ready. Thoughts?
Edit: By the way, she says she still loves me very much. But she may just be saying that to make me feel better.