What's my next move?? - absolutely nothing!! I know now that my ex wants me back, she still loves me, is thinking of me constantly and wants to continue where we left off. Now, I make her wonder - I'm back in NC and I will not be answering her calls anytime in the near future ( at least for the next month ). As I mentioned in my initial post, when she was talking to me the other day I didn't even care anymore - 14 weeks of NC will do wonders to cure you of any relationship - what makes me feel good about her contacting me is that she told me she made a mistake and realized what she had lost. Well, I'm glad she finally woke up!! That's all I needed to hear - now it's time to move on. For all of you going through rough times this weekend, I know where your coming from. But take heed in this note - there is life after your breakup - it takes time and weekends are the hardest to get by. But hook up with friends, do things that you enjoy, better yourself by exercising or changing your wardrobe, take up a new hobby, etc. but don't give in to calling the ex. Resist the urge to call and let your ex wonder. It will drive them crazy with curiosity. They did not care about you in your hours of need. If you have the urge to call please reply to this post and I'll help you through this - I have learned quite a bit in 14 weeks of how to effectively deal with breakup issues. Good luck and remember I'm there for you if you need any help!!