claus

I have come to the conclusion that, Im shy because: 1. My dad was and is not very close to me. He thinks he's single, that's why I don't like him. My mum has been through lots of crap. 2. As a child, I was never motivated by my parents to do anything. 3. My mum doesn't have friends. I think that their children could be friends with me. 4. I don't even know lots of my cousins, because my mother's brothers fight a lot. 5. I'm not used to girls. I wish I had a sister to be more used to them. 6. There's a severe lack of communication with my brothers. 7. My father hit me several times (and my mum) when I was little. I got so scared I didn't even want to get up from bed on Saturdays. This is why I think that I tend to be very defensive about people, so I don't trust in them very much. 8. Unexperienced in social stuff. I think if I knew lots of places to hang out or to go and drink a soda, then I would feel more confident about asking a girl out. I hope this helps

I'm "with" this girl (this because we aren't together, though I think it will go towards that). We kiss, hug, etc. We go out some times, and I think it's about time that I show her my world, my home, the stuff I do, etc. My problem? I don't like my home very much... in fact, I'd hate it if my dad showed up for example. Also, my brothers aren't any help, they only sit and play videogames... I don't think I'd feel very comfortable showing my boring home to her. So I feel like life in my house is too boring. Honestly, if I brought her here, I think she'd get bored very quickly. Perhaps I'm exaggerating? So I'd prefer not to bring her over here, but then again, I think it's very important if I want to form some kind of attachment. I do visit her house some times. any tips?

hello guys, here's my story, hope you can help. yesterday i chatted to the girl over at aim, and asked if she'd like to do something tomorrow, she said ok, call me tomorrow... i said, no, you call me back tomorrow. she accepts. next day, she doesn't call me, but she sends a sms to my phone saying she's with her cousin and later she'll be free. but no phone call. the next day i asked her why didn't she call me, and she said that she doesn't know how to call people on the phone. (which is true, she never calls someone, poor initiative my guess) so what? is this girl testing me to see if i react angry or indifferent? i reacted indifferent. like, "oh well ok". did i choose correctly? i think i did, i don't want to show myself as a wussie that's hunting her down... more like, ok if you want to go out fine, if not thats fine also. although i do like the girl a lot... we've kissed also, perhaps she's not that interested in me? but i do feel that tension when we are close, it's like a gut feeling. her body language is also very open. what do you guys think? she's testing? or does she really dislikes the phone? perhaps not really interested? i think it was a smart move to tell her to call me back, passing the ball over. how do you think i should react if this keeps on going? anyways, thanks for reading, and i'll keep you updated

ok so at school she was like if nothing ever happened. * * *.

well we had "the talk" she got uncomfortable and nervous, didnt know what to say (though he has stuff to say) she says she gets like this with everyone, nothing about myself. i asked her what did she think about us, and what did she think about me i think its perfectly normal to ask that stuff... i imagine every couple that are "more than friends" do that. i think its healthy communication she had to go. but said we'd contiinue talking i got really sad with her "response", so she said if I really needed that, she would tell me stuff.... but I dont want that!!! that's forced!!! i wish she could naturally say stuff she feels. her friend says shes like that with everyone, when it comes to subjects like that. help.

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