mikeca

drop some obvious clues, like ask for a ride somewhere so you can get some quality time in, thats how my best friends sister got me

Is it even possible for you to still love me after all that's happened?[/i]

hmm..that line makes me wonder, she's obviously regretting some if not all thing after the break up it sounds like a tester for getting back together..have you been NC forawhile? Does she think your over her (if you arent) if you've been doing the things here listed you should do, this could be a result of those actions. I would suggest taking it slow, maybe asking her what she expects from you after this? maybe plan a meeting depending on that outcome, to see if shes generally interested, say i'll meet you for coffee but im busy this week, how about next. If she's serious then you will know.

Reading before bed always helps me deter my thoughts from the EX

be a man, set the record straight, you've either got to let her know she will lose you or she'll keep running to you like a safety net.

thats an interesting read

I enjoyed that, thanks

should make it easier now..

oh...go running...theres not yet i've found to get me tired for sleep / too tired to think of them..

Well the problem with NC is..most of do it for the wrong reasons. Honestly, we come on ENA and see storys of reconciling and taking back, and we think..maybe that will be me..if i dont talk to them for a few months they'll come running back. even though we say its not for getting them back, we never listen. I havent..I dont know why even as I tell myself its for me my heart is like.."yeah, good one". But thats me, I guess im that kind of person. I dont like completely shutting the door on anything. I still 'relapse' but have not broken NC, I'm only human and I had a very big place in my heart for this one so its natural to harbour feelings after such a time. We just have to let go of trying to contact them no matter how different we feel, and just live our lives again, thats what matters the most, its you. and we forget that

you got the idea, move on, let this one go...2days and already like that? yeah........ :S

you wont believe how much venting on here helps, ive been in full nc since may...a few times thinking about breaking it but venting here prevents it

also try hearing the link removed

for some reason...I think he may have been lying do you know for sure hes been doing these things?

get them on the dance floor haha, worked on me, next thing you know your talking...then exchanging #s

is that a real song?

and I think your doing the right thing.

running helps target the belly fat try light jogging at first for 10-15minutes

21 male from BC haha seems like theres all canadians on the this board sometimes..I liked archtorontos comments, I've been Nc in 3 months now and I feel like that..if it was meant to be she'll realize it, I'm just gonna make myself a better person, and ironically the breakup has done this.

go running !

by the way i work in hell (retail) too

slap him...thats all i could think of..

evertime I hear about mantras I begin to think wow, we can do anything as long as we put our minds to it. glad to hear your doing better

its good to hear your doing better, I know I am and I hope people who are feeling sad right now can see this, and realize like "orlander" says it does get better

Im at a point now where its almost like...wow, im such a better person then I was 3-4months ago. I've gotten so much experience, prospective and just generally changed some of my habits, started reading again even if its relationship books haha. but then its like...I wish I could be this better person with them..

I found at first I didnt block her...but her msn was just too hurting..so I finally deleted and blocked her...then after a month or so I just unblocked her I'm in NC but I figured that might be a way for her to reach out so like they say 'out of sight out of mind'

I concur with aurian for a long time I'd have the same dream well actually like 3x but even that was confusing to me. SO I started running...basically running from the pain, and now I do it for fun and enjoy it. Knocks me right out come nighttime.

Ya my first gf and I broke up in march, and I remember thinking about this..it seems the first love is so innocent, just you two living life. Not worrying about should I do this...phone her 2 days later...then later on being needy...too available...not available...agh.. what the hell eh?

how old are you? and was it your first real relationship? People tend to say you never forget your first