tammyy

Hi everyone! I was dating a guy named Tom but for different reasons it didnt work out.. even though I still have a big crush on him! We decided to be friends and he invited me to a party. He introduced me to a guy he knows called Dave.. me & Dave got along really well and ended up hanging out all night. We got a bit drunk and kissed too. Then he invited me to his house to watch DVDs the next day. I went but I felt kind of weird because I still had such a big crush on Tom. So when he tried to hold my hand or something I kind of got all funny about it. After I left he sent me a txt message saying "Thanks for coming over. If you want to just be friends thats cool with me I would like that. I'm just a little confused as to whether you want more though?" Then I wrote something back like "yeah I think it would be cool if we could just be friends." But now I regret saying that! So one morning a few days later I asked if he wanted to come over and watch DVDs at my place. He didnt answer so I called him later that night.. no answer.. so I sent him a message saying "Aw Dave r u mad at me? I'm sorry if I upset u sweetie! .. no answer. Then the next day he sent one back saying "sorry I left my phone at work yesterday... I'm not sure if I can come over tonight I might have to see my dad" So I sent one back a few hours later saying "Hey thats cool.. If your seeing ur dad tonight we can do something another time But I havent heard anything back from him. I feel like an idiot txting and calling him 3 times in that one day!! Do you think I went a bit over board?? Have I totally blown my chance to see him again? Is there anyway I could date him now? I cant tell if he would be interested in seeing me again or not. What do you guys think??

So do you think that he has been having sex with her for the last few weeks, while he was living with me? Tammyy

I don’t know what to do. I met a man about 7 months ago. He is 39 & I am 20. He is married with 3 daughters. He said that he is having problems with his wife and he is only staying because he would miss his girls too much if he moved out. I continued seeing him (even though I knew it was wrong). He forgot to log out of his email page about 2 months ago and his wife found emails from me. I felt so bad and told him that I don’t want to see him anymore and that he should try to work things out with his wife. I felt so guilty. After a few days his wife sent me a message saying something like "He is miserable and I only want him to be happy, so I wish you both well"( !!!) His wife told him he could continue living there and see me if he wants. But I told him I can’t because its too weird and I don’t want to do that. He asked if he could move into my place. And I let him. He spent every afternoon with his wife and kids (until 8.30pm most nights, even though his kids go to bed at about 7pm) plus Sat & Sun for the last 3 weeks. He even slept over there on the Easter weekend so he could be there when the children got their eggs. He said he is missing his kids so much and it is hard for him. So I didn’t complain. His wife would get his daughters to ring up when he got home some nights to say that they miss him and want him to come home. Then 2 nights ago after one of the calls he said "I don’t want to hurt you but I miss the girls too much and I’m going home". Then he sent me a text msg when he got home saying he has been crying the whole way home and he thinks he has made the wrong choice. His wife saw him crying and said for him to go back to me if he was happy. Then tonight I got a text msg from her saying " bet peter didn’t tell you we were **** behind ur back not nice is it" It made me so angry/upset/confused. I called and asked him about it and he said she is just trying to cause problems and its not true. He told me about a month ago that once when we had a fight he went home and had sex with her. So I don’t know who to believe. Please give me some advice!!!