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Hi Tylin, My wife is really wrose than anyone can ever imagine, this is 4:45 AM and im still up cus i have no idea where she is, with who she is, she is bundle os lies and cheats, I never thought the person who i loved most she will treat me like this way, life is really wrose than hell, but its too late to realize anyting and see the truth. Im really passing through most tough and rough time of my life, sometime some negative thought give me bad intentions like commit suscide, and so something wrong with myself, but i know even if i die she wont cry single tears over me. You're lucky that things are getting better for you,, my wife temper is really danger and horrible, when she is mad and upset she run to hit me, she throw things at me, she made me bleed so manytimes, she is very abusive she abuse me, my culture, my religion, my parents etc, she is pycho who always blame others for everything. She always run to cheat on me (this is what i found everytime we faught or argued, she cheated on me) even her daughter always talk about her behind her back but on her face she kiss her a.... I also asked my wife to visit therapist but she refused it completely. but now im just sitting here wondering about myself and things, cant understand im waiting for someone help so i can move on. so Best wishes for your good future and i wish you tons of happiness with him.

This is same happened to me in 2 years i gave to many chances to my wife to change, i changed myself i change my attitudes, my nature. im from another country and i came in usa for her, but i always afriad with her cus in past 2 year relationship she did millions of mistake but as my first true love i loved her to my death but she never know the value of it, i always try to make smooth and easy going communication with her but she always pushed me away. She always blamed me to push her into marriage, my parents also never liked her, so my alot of female friends, they all awared me but *love made me blind* my wife asked to rid off all my friends, and parents to prove my love, and i sold my car, bike, home, computer, shares and so much more just to moved in usa with her. I always been there whenever she was sad and alone i always supported her but she was never been there for me. few days ago i was lil down and we was on the way of atlanticcity, so i tell my wife that its remind me my place, and i missing it, then she start blaming me for nothing, she said im not happy here with her and i need to move back, which really hurt me. and now situation is this im the one depress and alone and noone is there to stand by my side. So my experience say that you will be better off alone without him, and another thing is Always listen to your mind and be smart and listen to your heart and be happy. but you can never find your happiness with that person who treat you like crap. you already gave him alot of chances but he never cared so now its time for you to forget past and start new. so im also going to do same, i need fresh and good healthy family not any drama of every night.

Hello , your story is same as like mine, I do everyone at home like cooking, cleaning, washing and all other house things(I dont have any job right now cus i just moved to here with my wife) but she always try to find excuse to yell at me . At day time we plan to take dinner together but at night time she says she eat alot at work and she is not hungry anymore and i stay hungry all night becasue she get home by 12(mid night) and i wait so long for her. If she have good time at work then she treat me ok but if she had bad day then she treat me like slave. When i met her she was so depressed and alone person, i also thought with my love i will change her, she also told me im the only one important and special person in her life and alot of things. But as you said "actions speak louder than words and when it comes down to it I can't take any more of this emotional roller coaster." same about me. She always say she loves me, she care about me but only in words, never in actions. I also admit she is not terrible person but everyone deserve respect, love, care and god happy healthy relationhip with partner. but most of time my wife is abusive, aggresive and full of temper, which is enough to push anyone away, no matter how much they love and care but nobody can stay with that person who dont respect you and treat you nice.

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