mandaryn

Although his financial life isn't great, he may have potential, don't count him out, it's easy to fall behind when your still young. Tell him you love him, and that you were wrong about the break-up idea. Tell him what you told us. If he's the right guy, he's probably missin' you real bad too.

Ok...wait a minute. To say that men who like younger women have immature relationship skills is a big generalization. There is generally a chemistry between an older guy and younger woman because most women find it hard to be happy with men their age. Women are typically more mature and earlier until things level off in the 30-40 age range. I'm 34, my wife is 24. She was 19 when we met. I didn't like her because she was a teenager, I just liked her The man in question for this post has no business being married. His obsessions do not make lifelong commitment especially easy. As he gets older, his attraction to teens will only intensify. Please...let him go with kindness and start working on your life after him. This is only going to lead to a destructive end for both of you and a very real potential for humiliation.

Wow. A lot of us (guys) have trouble letting go of porn, and strip clubs, but if a man is legitimately in love with you, then he'll save those impulses for you. Get rid of this {mod edit}, and please....don't start seeing one of the guys he goes to the strip club with. That's just the same mistake all over again. You're worth more than that, and there are terrific men in the last place you'd think. Look for us, we're there.....