Hotniceguy

Thanks for everyone's responses i appreciate them. I'll take things very slow and very safe with this guy and see what happens. If nothing else i feel like i've made a new friend in him. thanks again!

I've recently been talking to this guy and i really like him, but he's HIV+ and has been for a few years. I am hesitant to get into a relationship with him, I know i can't get HIV from kissing and things like that but what about when it comes to sex? There are so many risks and i don't know if i can deal with it. Anyone out there been in a similar situation and had reservations? Any feedback or advice would be welcome. Thanks!

Thanks for your reply. I will let you know what happens, hopefully i will have the opportunity to hit it off with this guy even more and see what happens. Hopefully he's gay

Hello everyone, I need some advice, im right out of college and starting a new career with a big company. I'm gay, not out and most wouldn't think i am gay, however, i am pretty obvious when i am into another guy (or at least i think i am). Last week at my corporate orientation I met a guy who is also a new employee and i have become very drawn to him for some reason. He is super hot, a bit older than me but not married. the first day i noticed him sitting in the back and the second day he made an attempt to sit next to me but some other guy took the seat just as he was walking up, he did sit behind me and we inevitably struck up conversation. Since then we have had limited interaction but he initiates conversation with me and i feel that there is something there, with his eye contact and the way he smies at me. I may just be way over thinking this and hoping that he's gay and into me and i don't know if i really have gaydar, but i have a feeling he might be. Our conversations have not been too personal yet because most of our day is sitting in a classroom setting, but i want to make a move. This guy dresses very well, better than most straight men would, even in a corporate setting and he's big into health and fitness. So anyways probably way too much detail, but should i try to pursue this and if so how should i go about it? I am pretty new to the gay dating scene so i still don't have tons of experience myself. Any comments are welcome and appreciated. thanks!