A blue eyed boy meets a brown eyed girl...
I was with my first gf for just under 3 years, we lost our virginity together and we shared many happy times. In Feb of 2005 she broke up with me because of her not wanting to be in a relationship, during the last year of our relationship i became insecure about her going out and partying , although she didnt do it that regulary. I could tell that she wanted to be free for her last year of highschool (this being the start of the exciting times for her).
As 2005 progressed as us friends i didnt move on and my life as whole didnt either i had lost my job and was very lost in my entire existence and still clung on to the hope one day she would come back to me, she became close friends with a male, though nothing sexually or intimate happened between them. I was very jealous of this and it ate me up inside. At the end of 2005 she kissed 2 guys at end of year parties(one was the close friend) and didnt tell me until a month later, this spiralled me into some very depressed times and i was so insecure that i read her emails and msg logs.
When i did it for the last time 1 week ago, she found out what i was doing and was hurt alot. I was racked with guilt and couldnt believe i did such a thing to a person i cared for so much. We had also kissed for the first time in over a month this night. After not speaking to her for 4 days i had thought about how to move on with my life and get myself on the right track.
Today she called me and sounded cheerful and was willing to speak to me and even organised to see my tomorrow. I rang her later that night and said that i cant see her anymore and that i need to move on , she said ok without really sounding like she was comprehending what it meant.
I hope i made the right decision, but im leaving my best friend and only friend atm. I feel like im starting school again with no friends and just the big world out there.
She also bought us tickets to a music festival for christmas that happens in two weeks time and im at a loss if i should go by myself or give them back or even go with her as one last hurrah. But will that just prolong the grieving process.
Kind regards Lostboy