laxryan

just hang in there man i know its not the same as you but i go to school with my ex i see her everyday and she pretends she never met me. Just act the same way back, if u ever feel yourself wanting to appologize or somethin stay strong and think of how she doesnt deserve you. There is other people out there i didnt think i would ever get over her but a couple weeks after im fine and can say she doesnt deserve me, a lot of the times i can actually find she never even tried as hard as me. peace

If anyone cares I just wanted to give an update on my situation, my exgirlfriend i figure out turns out to be a total bi tch excuse the language but it really is the only way u can describe her. I was going to give her a letter i wrote a couple days ago but i havent talked to her for about a month and she ignores me and shit and pretends i was never alive, i guess deep down i do have a little bit of feelings left for her, its hard to believe. but for the most part im starting to like this other girl and everything seems to be working out great, im doing better in school even tho that wasnt really much of a prob, and im doing better in laccrosse, and i get to hang out with friends a lot more. thanks for the help before but i guess time does heal your heart, that was so hard to believe a month ago ryan

well i do like the idea of writing a letter......do you think i should wait a while tho ?maybe a couple more weeks, cuz it hasnt even been two weeks yet...i think that if i wait maybe a month or something around there, or even longer she might actually take it a little more seriously,last week was spring break and i know she did a lot of stuff with her friends which i think she needed, but i know she was bored a lot too (she always has bored away messages up and she never used to), i guess it was the same way with me but my friends did help a lot, i just dont know if its worth trying i talked to a couple of my close friends about this stuff and they told me that i shouldnt give up if i really like her, but everytime i try to talk to her it never works...im still sooo confused on what to do, i think it was the worst time to have gotten dumped because we had the whole week of nothing to do except get back to the old ways, and im afraid that she had too much fun with her friends, but if things werent meant to work out then i guess ill have to accept that

i guess this is normal......it happened to me but not to that extent i guess its just cuz im still in high school, and im still really young. I do kinda get mad or just upset because we made so many promises to each other and then she broke all of those when she broke up with me. I am on the varsity laccrosse team and im in tenth grade, she never came to any of my games but always promised she would come to one and then something would come up, and she always told me to score goals for her, well guess what i scored my first 2 goals of the season cuz we put a new offense in im comfortable with, and i can say happily that i scored them for myself and my team.....if anyone cares we beat them 5-4.......its been like a week and a half and i still do love her but i dont think im ever going to have another chance , but im cool with that cuz i guess we just werent meant to be together, maybe she figured that out before me. anyway good luck with your problems time will heal ur heart, its the only way

its been about a week since my girlfriend of 6 months broke up with me. I've talked to so many people about it and i've heard a lot of the same stuff like your young, theres other girls out there. She was my first real girlfriend, and i cant really get her off my mind. She broke up with me saying that we fight too much. We only had a couple arguments, she promised me that we could do something a couple nights over spring break then she had plans so we had a little fight about that and then one day at an assmebly in school the night before she promised she would sit with me and she sat with her friends. Thats about all of the real arguments we had, we got along really good and were best friends, even the day before we broke up we talked on the phone for like our normal two hours, and everything was fine. She told me that she lost feelings for me and she doesnt love me anymore, that was just so hard to believe because such a stupid argument cant really cause 6 months of love go down the drain, at least in my eyes. ive tried talking to her and ive been looking at stuff about ways to get her back and that probably wasnt a good move, i was just hoping i could get some help on different ways i can try to get her back , i dont care how long it takes, if it takes a couple years i am fine with that i am still completely in love with her. I told her that i dont want to lose her as a friend, she says she still wants to be friends, but i cant really get her to talk to me without being real defensive or just to have a normal conversation, it seems like she hates me, i asked a couple of her friends if she hates me and they say she doesnt, im just really confused about this whole thing and i hope somebody can give me some advice....and what they think my chances are to get back together with her, and im 16 a sophomore in high school.....thanks ~Ryan