Hey, I am new and I need some advice.
My ex boyfrined and I dated for about a year and a half, and we were doing really good. and then one night, we were talking and he has to leave, which was like okay cool I love you I will talk to you tomorrow. Well I am an insomniac and he knows this, so I was online and just doing random things and chatting with a fellow insominac friend of mine, when I went to check my email,lo and behold. there was a email from him. and it made me happy, I will not lie. I open it up expecting something sweet and stuff. It says I cant do this anymore. I want to break up. It is best for you . It came out of no where. Well this was about going on 3 months now. Well we tried to do the " lets be friends" thing but he made it too hard. Becuase he cheated on me and lied about it for a while in the relationship. So I cut communiciation with him. So about 2 or 3 weeks ago I IMed him ( I refuse to talk to him on the hone and he doesn't live near me so I dont/wont see him) and I just wanted to liek say look I have forgiven you as well as I can. But I will not becuase I can not be your friend. and he then insults me and all that great stuff. A few days later. He IMs me to just say"hi" but he doesnt he sent me weird little "death and gorgy" lyrics and then got defensive when I asked him what he wanted. He said he wanted to talk and be friendly. I told him I didnt want anything to do with him, becuase he had his chance. ya know? But he doesnt seem to get the fact I want him to go away , so he is still Iming me, and has probably tried to email me.( I blocked his email from emailing me) I just need to know: Why won't he go away?! I mean it is now starting to effect my current relationship, becuase my ex knows so much about me that he uses painful things from my past to attack me with, so he makes me upset and sometimes cry. What can I say to him that will make him realize I dont want him, or love him anymore?
Thanks for your help in advance.
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