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Yeah, well she seems interested otherwise Id assume the stares and her standing close to me during smoke breaks and telling me to call her, or saying on the phone that she is lonely or telling her she likes me. Who knows, if anything happens in class tonight ...

Yeah maybe I havent been as firm with the times. However, shouldnt a message warrant a return phone call? Two weekends in a row its the same b.s., and I know when Im in class tonight shes gonna give me some more eyes. Ill probably just play it by ear but I just dont want to be that guy that wont give up and is annoying the hell out of her. I mean, at what point do you just say f**k off?

nothing wrong with how you are feeling. just take it slow and let the alcohol fill the void.

I posted maybe 2 weeks ago. I met a girl in one of my classes. I dont really know what the deal is here. Im pretty shy, a little nervous but am good at reading people. Somehow, I fail here. I can play poker and get everyones money ... maybe Im just not facing facts and want to sit another hand here. So she was very interested in the beginning. I got her to come out after class and we had a great time. I know she loved it - laughing the whole time. She called a few days later and we went out with her best friend and someone I managed to scrounge up as to not be awkward. Went well, she dropped me home and didnt come in because her friend was ready to go. Got her over to my place the next class, we hung out and I got really nervous. I probably freaked her out a little because I was shaking but she was totally cool with it and we just talked and chilled out. walked her back to her car, we kissed good night and she said 'i kind of like you. when can i see you again' I walked her back to her car after the next class and on the way she dropped the 'im really busy and dont have much time for relationships with anyone.' this came up in conversation about how she wasnt able to hang out this weekend because of work and school. when i hearded the dreaded line i bit my tongue, walked the rest of the way and wished her a good night. she seemed angry i didnt say anything more but i read what she was saying as her saying no thanks. Im not trying to be a pushy jerk here so I just let it go. Since shes been a little flaky. Not as interested but still playing coy. She looks at me now again, sometimes whistles to get my attention. I decided to give her a ring last week and when i called and asked what she was up to she responds 'eating a lonely dinner'. i asked her to come out to the bar with a few friends of mine but she was on the way to a concert. she said she would call after. she didnt, but called the next day leaving a voice message explaining she had a paper and was just really busy but if i wanted i could give her a call and hopefully we could hang out soon. score. shes busy but still interested, maybe i read it wrong? who knows. i called and told her if she was in town give me a call...i knew she was coming sunday, but she didnt. talked to her in class again on wed and as we were walking out she said 'im really busy but if you want give me a call on saturday.' i asked what time she got off, called her about an hour and a half after she got off and no response. i feel like shes just playing with me. i dont understand why she said what she said but then hasnt made any effort to actually hang out - yet has still been dropping clues that she is interested. her phone work sucks and its driving me nuts. meanwhile the bottle of jameson is hurting.

i left out 1 thing In the middle of us kissing she said 'i kinda like you' i apologized for my awkwardness and she said it was ok and she was an awkward girl. is it worth the call or just let it go until i see her in person next? (last date was last monday), saw her in class this monday and today.

First off, Im 22 and pretty unexperienced with women. I like this girl in one of my classes and it seemed that she liked me. She asked me for my number so we could hang out sometime, a few days later I asked her out for a beer, she called and asked me about lunch one day (was at work), later called to meet her and a friend at a bar. Got her back to my place and we talked a bit. I got really nervous just because of my inexperience - she seemed pretty cool about it. We kissed at the end of the night even though Im pretty sure I could have gotten a little more I was just too freaked out. Well, I called her a few days later, left a message seeing if she wanted to hang out - no call back. Next time I saw her I was really nervous again (god I suck huh). Well, she was saying stuff about how its hard for her to manage relationships with all her friends and how shes rough on time (given, it is midterms and she does work nights). I just cant tell if that was her implying that it wouldnt work or if Im just being crazy. I dont know if I creeped her out too much by being so nervous or if Im just overreacting. We still talk during/after class and do all the group stuff together. I was gonna man up and ask her out after class today. Got offered a ride home from her - she was busy and had to run to work. I was talking with a friend and he offered to drive me home so I didnt get a chance to ask. Should I give a call or call it quits?