GuyNeedsHelp

This guy needs to come clean with you and himself. I've learned from my own mistakes and also learned, if you don't come clean with yourself you can't move forward. I'm talking about your husband.

I cheated on my girlfriend, I'm seeing a counselor to get some help. You have to love your self before you can love somebody else. I've been feeling so empty inside for such a long time that I didn't see clearly. What I think I was seeing was just an image. My girlfriend has not forgiven me and I don't expect her to anytime soon, but, we have been talking and were going to get some help. She told me about a book called "In the mean time". She read a paragraph to me last night over the phone and it really hit home. I'm seeing the counselor for many reasons, but most of is to get that empty feeling out of and start living a new life. Well, I do believe things can be worked out if you think your partner is and relationship are worthy of it. I don't believe in the "once a cheater always a cheater" I'm 37 and have never cheated. Good Luck.

No, there was no sex problem.

I think I was confused about what I wanted. I've learned alot about myself and my girlfriend. She is an amazing girl, with a great heart and is willing to help me through this. I have other issues, which I'm gouing to talk about, but she knows everything and is willing to stay with me through this. I know deep in my heart I never wanted to be out of her life. As far as the other girl, it was a sex only relationship. I don't feel anything for her. I don't know why I cheated, I'm hoping to find out more about myself through therapy and why I did the horrible things I did.

There will always be somebody that believes they can't overcome or change what they did in the past. I think the difference here is, I reconize I have a problem. I'm willing to fix it. I'm tired of feeling empty. I feel likemy life is going to change. I was talking to my girlfirend today I told her I hurt the person I care about the most, she said, do you know who that person is? She said you. You hurt your self. You just have to believe in the power of outside help.

Thanks for your thoughts